What is the main causes of Divorce

@tnhzone (242)
Malaysia
July 14, 2008 11:40pm CST
Now the number of divorce is increasing day by day.This is a worried issue because it will make children being grown up in a broken family where this will influence their future.Although many countries's goverment do work for this issue but it doesn't seem work.What is the main causes of divorce then?Why must Divorce seem there was once you are a loving couple?
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4 responses
• Malaysia
16 Jul 08
Divorce -- cause they know what to do when they found out they not love each other anymore. Dont scare of marry cause u scare of divorce. just like u cant scare f born into the world cause u scare to die!!
@tnhzone (242)
• Malaysia
16 Jul 08
Hmmm..that really true.Never try never know.
@currykai (427)
• Malaysia
15 Jul 08
I think is due to 2 factors. Less dependency of women on men where women dont depends income from men like last time and if they feel the family is breaking down, the could opt for divorce without any problems. Secondly, is the changing culture which leads to more divorce case, media celebrities and friends who had gone through divorce gave married couple another option way out if they feel is the end.
@tnhzone (242)
• Malaysia
16 Jul 08
Yup,the women or ladies now is not like before.Now they are more independent and have thier own career and thought.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
15 Jul 08
I think a lot people women in particular see marriage as a dream thing, something they have wanted all their lives and they don't look for or just don't see the down side of the one they love....also I think people are very selfish these days and take the other person for granted once they have that certificate...also there is the temptations and money problems...
@tnhzone (242)
• Malaysia
15 Jul 08
Yup..Marry because of many will only lead to divorce in the end.It's very hard to sustain marry that start with money but not love
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
These are the reasons that popped into my mind: 1. Third party. 2. The romance has faded. 3. Constant conflict. 4. Money problems. But I think the main cause of divorce is the weak foundation of love and friendship. This foundation must be strong enough to overcome any challenges the couple may encounter. But if this is weak, the relationship would really not last for a lifetime.
@tnhzone (242)
• Malaysia
16 Jul 08
No so agree with the romance has faded.Because i think most of the relationship will start not so romantic when it comes to 3 or 4 years.By then the couple will still feel romantic by doing usual thing if they loving each other.Extra romantic will not be that necessary.Well,this might differ for different people.