How to show your love that you trust her?
By Kevin
@excellence7 (3655)
Mauritius
July 15, 2008 3:17am CST
I love my love extremely but due to our fights, she felt that I don't trust her as before. In fact I fight because I want us to follow firm principles of life. But she does not understand- she thinks that I am used to fighting with her. I want to show her that I love her and trust her a lot.
But How?
2 responses
@amrishkj (297)
• India
15 Jul 08
Well buddy she is right with what she say. I agree that you want to follow principles in life but then she is a human and an independent one. If you want to have the relationship going for you then you should never press demands on her saying dont do this dont do that. It will only cause to become bitter and in the end you will lose her. If you really love her let her live her life and accept to live with her as she is. Remember nobody is perfect including you and me.
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@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
15 Jul 08
You are right but it is said that freedom ruins woman. I can't let her so free. I also sometimes feel guilty when I press too much demands on her. I become possessive at times, I can't help that. I trust her immensely but I don't know why my heart fears when she goes out or when she is among relatives, etc...? What do you advise me to do friend?
@amrishkj (297)
• India
15 Jul 08
My honest answer is pal that you will lose her if hold her very tight. You seem to be a person with very narrow view. No amount of gift will compensate for the trouble you are putting your g/f in. If you keep perstering her like that then one day your fears will definitely come true. I dont understand since you have faith in her why are you not allowing her to have space. Just think what would you do if she did like this to you. Give me an honest answer or atleast give yourself an honest answer and then act accordingly. I dont see a bright future in your relationship if you go on bossing around her. The world these days is a lot independent. My sincere advice is let her live her live without you controlling it.
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@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
15 Jul 08
I will surely heed to your advice, I will let her have her freedom which I never did. I trust her and I will try to overcome my fear and my jealousy. I can't live without her.
@MizukiZHR (611)
• China
15 Jul 08
Hello,excellence!Your problem is very difficult to solve,I think.In my opinion,you can have a talk with her but you must show your frank.And maybe you can buy her a gift,the gift needn't to be very expensive but must to be what she likes.I think you also can make the gift by yourself and she must will forgive you when she receive it.
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@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
15 Jul 08
I like your idea, I will try to make a gift by myself..but I don't know what. I will give this a good thought and will start right now. Thanks for your response dear friend.
