what is the right age to get married?
By geforce
@geforce (16)
China
July 15, 2008 8:19am CST
i'am a girl,and 23 years old.butlots of my classmates have been married,some even has one or two baby now.i am comfused about that.it is too early .i think i'm too young to get married. 23 is a golden age,you can do anything you want.you should fight for your dream,work harder and harder.But if you get married,it means you must lose something or give up something.you must face choosing.god is fair.you got one,you must loose another one.the same like marry.if you got amrried,you maybe spend too much time on your family,maybe you have no time to do your own things.it is boring,don't you think?however,if you are single,it is so easy.do what you like ,everything uou like.no one would stop or bother you,it's cool,isn't it?hurry up,talk about this,tell me what do you tink?
if you are a girl,tell me what is the right age do you wanna get amrried?
if you are a boy,tell me what is the right age do you wanna fet married?
if you are mom or dad, tell me what age you got married.
3 responses
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
16 Jul 08
Yes it's true that when you are single, you have more freedom and you can do whatever you want with less reponsabilities. But what is your real pupose in life? I have a dream as well but having a boyfriend won't stop me..but yes I will work less and spend more time with my family but I'd rather have a family then tons of monney. Whatever is your dream and the amount of monney you have, what is the point if your can't share it with your children since you don't have one. I think getting married at 26-27 is the maximum then you should get a child. After 37, it's too late..u can still get married though but can't have children anymore. I want to get married with my bf but only when i will get my degree to support myself and my future family financially. Planning to do it at 26...soon as possible.
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
Hi there!
I'm a girl and for me there is no right or wrong age to get married but just right situations and timing. Getting married is generally one's choice. I think the only question is whether you still want freedom or you're ready to submit to a married life.
If you feel that you still have dreams to fulfill and that you still want to do a lot of things then that means you want to be free. If that is the case, you're not yet ready to get married at any time.
But if you feel that you have done all there is to be done for yourself. You have a job and stable enough to have a family of your own and emotionally and physically ready to give up your single life then I suppose you are ready to get married.
Basically getting married is really one's choice. Don't let yourself be carried away by what others say. Its your life. Its your decision.
Ciao!
I'm a girl and for me there is no right or wrong age to get married but just right situations and timing. Getting married is generally one's choice. I think the only question is whether you still want freedom or you're ready to submit to a married life.
If you feel that you still have dreams to fulfill and that you still want to do a lot of things then that means you want to be free. If that is the case, you're not yet ready to get married at any time.
But if you feel that you have done all there is to be done for yourself. You have a job and stable enough to have a family of your own and emotionally and physically ready to give up your single life then I suppose you are ready to get married.
Basically getting married is really one's choice. Don't let yourself be carried away by what others say. Its your life. Its your decision.
Ciao!
