Was your first love the one who left the most pain?

I was the one who broke up with my first boyfriend! So even though I may have regretted it, it was my fault! He was very gentle and smart, but I was too young to appreciate him as much as I should have!

My first serious relationship was with my first husband and, yes, that one has left me with the most scars and pain. I was too trusting and he was too young...we were both too young really, only 19 when we married. I did love him dearly but he let me down in so many ways and betrayed me so that's had an impact on my self esteem and my ability to trust others for many years. I've had a couple of other relationships since and right now I'm married and happpy...but it's been a long road...over 30 years to get to where I can even begin to trust again.

Hey there! Well actually, the most hurt I've got was my second one. It's a bit complicated. Me and my first girl friend (which my fiancee right now) was on a cool off mode and we gave each other room. I happen to come across a young girl from school whom I got real close with. Maybe because I get too attached easily at that time. I was stunned that I am giving a lot to her. My time, effort, and even my life. We did love each other in a friendly way, it was my mistake that I broke it and had to pay emotionally. It was real tough. I gave up a lot and I got nothing and even lost more. Right now, me and my fiancee are doing fine. See 'ya and take care!

[b]My first love is very memorable. He is my crush. He went away to another school. We used to send each others letters but as days goes by, the letters become scarce. Then i learned from one of his friends that he already found somebody else. It broke my heart to let go of him. But i have to or else i'm going to die thinking too much of him. That was long time already but i still remember him from time to time. Specially if i hear our favorite song.[/b]

Actually my first love was actually quite easier to recover with than with the next one. It was easy because I really see no point in staying in love with someone who actually showed you anger after you've confessed your feelings. It was actually harder the next one because she was a good friend and although I told her already and she dumped me, she's still very caring for me and a fool I am for love I really thought that there was still a chance with her. Fortunately I have already met someone to love and to cherish for the rest ofmy life and no they are not the two previous ones mentioned

i think it is those who recently breaks up with me are the most painful since you try to improve yourself with every relationship you enter and yet they leave you high and dry. it makes me confused of what i did wrong when you tell yourself not to commit the same mistake again. ^.^