Whats It Worth To You?
By walkthetalk
@walkthetalk (1307)
United States
July 16, 2008 12:43am CST
When you ask a guy or a girl for something you need, something they are supposed to give you or do for you any ways, and you get the response. What is it worth to you. How do you answer that question? This guys been flirting for a while. I just blow it off. Just wondering how anyone else would answer it. Thanks.
2 responses
@majestic12 (270)
• United States
11 Aug 08
This is funny, since I am often the person that is asked and I often give a similar remark to the person.
Anyway, if a person says "what is it worth to you," the best thing you can say to his flritatious question is respond by turning the tables on him.
Know that he likes you, know that he probably wants to go out with you.
So to his question, you respond: "Lets not beat around the bush with all of this flirting, you want to ask me out, I know it and you know it...so whats it worth for me to say YES to you? Oh, before I forget, make sure to get my request done by today...see you."
1. you jumped ahead of him, which he didnt expect
2. you didnt give him a chance to speak and ended the conversation before he did
3. you turned the tables on him
4. you gave him an incentive to get what you want
5. he has to re-think his method
@walkthetalk (1307)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Yea. I know and he know what he wants. But we're both married.
He's been playing this game for about 9 months now. Nothings
gonna be done about it. I guess its just fun for both of us to play
around, and flirt with each other.
@walkthetalk (1307)
• United States
14 Aug 08
We agreed a few months ago not to take it any further than friends.
We have been really close. Came really close, a couple of times
and fate stopped it every time. Friends is what we are. What we should
be since we're both married, and have kids.
@majestic12 (270)
• United States
12 Aug 08
If he is the kind of guy that doesnt give up, he isnt going to take the hint if you just ignore him. You might as well play the same game that he does, but you need to keep on your toes to keep him off balance which isnt hard to do.
Its a matter of giving him something he wants to hear, then taking it back....push-pull technique.
Next time he asks you for something, you ask him "What do I get out of it?"
You got good questions, I am adding you to my friends list.
@walkthetalk (1307)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Okay, I guess I can understand that. I'm not sure
if I get it.
