fear factor
By cupid74
@cupid74 (11388)
Pakistan
15 responses
@mayka123 (16605)
• India
16 Jul 08
For me its loosing friends. I am so scared of loosing close friends that I try to avoid getting too close to anyone. And the ones that I really get attached to - it hurts me when they avoid me and I am in constant dread of loosing them. And the next thing i fear is anything that crawls.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
16 Jul 08
Hi dear
thanks for such lovely response
u r right we get more hurts where lot of expectations are attached. but really some times people uses u, pose u as friend and when their purpose is done, its hard to find them.
then later on this keep u making more friends
dont be afraid of crawling thing, u mean snakes etc
Take caere
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Yeah i do agree that u dont know what other person have in mind, but with this fear u can stop meeeting friend or having good time with them
i believe u use ur experience and ur sixt sense to judge the person, squueze happu moment and Dont attach TOOO much expectation
Have a nice day a head
Take care
@tin_cierva (241)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
hmm, i'm afraid of being alone, and have a lot of work to do.. i mean loads to do.. like im the only employee with 5-10 construction projects, that i have to supervise all alone.. that scares me..
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Hi Dear
thanks for ur response
well, loneliness is scary no doubt, but one good thing that u r so occupied that might not be staying alone
as far as handling 5-10 construction project make u afraid, so i am sure u just work on project management and i am sure things will be streamlined for U. Its all good management
Take care and wish u all the Best
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
16 Jul 08
Zass
Firstly nice topic! And now coming to your query, I think I fear the loss of my loved ones the most. I feel very vulnerable on thinking about the fact that I will have to leave alone without them. It kills me. But that's what life is.
smiles..
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
16 Jul 08
Hi dear
thanks for ur reply
and i am 100% agree with u, its the fear i want to hide in bottom of my thoughts, and its valid for me too. now i really feel that friend think a like
i know its life but its fact i dont want to face and even dont want to think of it
Take care
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
17 Jul 08
very well said, cupid. We should not think about the obvious and make our lives sad!
How are you?
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Hi dear
very well said. infact fear is state of mind, and u know what make us afraid, the unknow reason behind any happening make us afraid from that, so what ever mystery is un resolved.
AAnd bugs, insects its more that irritation, than fear
Take care
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@gloreymay (882)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
I'm so scared of worms and snakes! Every time I saw one, I'm feeling well... hehehe don't know why.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Hi dear
thanks for dropping by
And sure i can understand what u want to say, The fear of snakle is more dangerous than its poision. even we know that most breeds of snake dont have poision, and even if they have , its cant kill human, but still WE SCREAM as we never know either it has it or not thats why, do u agreee
Well i wonder how come u encounters snakes and worms?????
Stay away from them and stay safe
All the Best
@KellyMate (361)
•
16 Jul 08
omg!! My little sister is 3 years old and she picked up a spider the other day and ran towards me like ' look what i found kelly ' i was like 'AHH get away from me!'
imagine if she put it on me
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
16 Jul 08
Ha ha hai wonder why kids are not afraid of these bugs, my son is 3 yrs as well as he dont mind catching frogs, lizards, cockroach or killing other bugs
Well i dont want to Imagine that IF she put that spider on U. one thing i am sure would be Loud Scream, then might be slap to little girlso its good u were safe
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Hi dear
thanks for the response
Well well, its Good that u r not afraid of thing, but i am sure that having some time with Snakes, worms and bugs or any other crawlers. its not matching asthetic sense.
so i do agree with u
Take care and keep away from Crawlers
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
16 Jul 08
I fear the uncertainty and unexpected happenings in my life. Though nothing is certain in life, yet we always feel that we should not lend in any deep trouble or uncalled situation, everything should as per our plans. But each day of life brings us unexpected events, which makes me more nervous.
What is your fear factor?
@weng_08 (282)
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
Hello Cupid...I can never be a doctor for I cannot stand the sight of blood or wound. Whenever I watch the news I try not to look...I am working on this for I know that I can't always be scared of this...I hope I am a work in progress.
Have a great day!
@nupats (3564)
• India
16 Jul 08
hi dear i am very scared of cockroaches, lizards and rats in house....when we are driving i just fear too much of speed and rash driving...and thaough i am a swimmer still i cannot step into a rough sea in monsoon the huge waves just send a chill down my spine i would rather not challenge the nature...and i am not scared but uncomfortable slightly at heights..so thats about it
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
hi dear
thanks for ur reply
well cockroaches, lizards and rats are common factors at our homes for ladies, so i can co relate.
Hmm, u r swimmer, u never told me that, anyway swimming in Pool and swiming in Fast river or sea are totally differnt, u have to take account of weather, time and luner dates so there might not be tides.Nature is great, no onme can even challenge it
So Enjoy life wit care, as precations are better prevention
@summerrain (355)
• China
17 Jul 08
fear factor?maybe I fear be cheated by someone or something.that's not a good feeling,you known.if we are getting along very well with somebodies,believe them,help them,give them our own heart,then,one day,we find that they actually are not so good,they are not the ones you think,and even they break your heart.then we will feel it's a total failure.I feel nervous about that things to happen.so I treat everyone carefully.I don't want to be harmed.
in fact,the question is a little general and vague,I don't know if I have understood what you are trying to express.so,what's you opinion about that question,can you give me an example?
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Hi dear
u reply ok, all i wanted to ask thats what though make u shatter, or result in running cold feeling in ur spine
any thing,any thought which u dont want to imagine. as u said u r aafraid of being cheated and being hurt.U dont want to imagine that the people u rely on , trust them can ever Harm u or Betray U.
I wish and hope ur true love and trust will remain safe and grow more with passage of time
Take care
@nadams80 (77)
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16 Jul 08
I'm afraid of birds. They freak me out. Chickens, pidgeons, ducks, all birds. I will not go near them.
A bird had made nest under the eaves at our front door when I was still in school. Every entry into the house would be a harrowing experience. Sometimes a bird would be there when you approached and would swoop down and fly off, also startled.
Birds that are in a cage I'm fine with. But I woul dnot be comfortable at someone's home if their pet bird were free roaming.
I think it's a strange phobia to have. I've always thought something bad must have happened to me involving a bird when I was very young, but my parents cannot recall anything.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Hi dear
thanks for ur response
Sure its strange, but if its there, its Ok, u just need to over come it and i am sure u can do it as u r fine with birds in cage
Birds like chicken, pigeins are harmless, why dont u try to have some Chicks as pet???
What about cooked birds
@srpkinja (375)
• Canada
17 Jul 08
My fear is animals. When I am really close to some animals I get really scared. If I actually had to go on the show Fear Factor and do half of the things they do, I dont know if I would make it out alive by the end of the show, actually, I know for sure; I wouldnt make it out alive. When they eat, touch, have to sit in boxes with weird animals and insects, that creeps me out and I am just watching it over the TV. For me, thats a scary thing to think about. Which is why I will never sign up for Fear Factor or any reality show like that! Thanks, but no thanks.