fear factor

@cupid74 (11388)
Pakistan
July 16, 2008 5:02am CST
Whats ur fear factor? would u all like to share
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15 responses
@mayka123 (16605)
• India
16 Jul 08
For me its loosing friends. I am so scared of loosing close friends that I try to avoid getting too close to anyone. And the ones that I really get attached to - it hurts me when they avoid me and I am in constant dread of loosing them. And the next thing i fear is anything that crawls.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
16 Jul 08
Hi dear thanks for such lovely response u r right we get more hurts where lot of expectations are attached. but really some times people uses u, pose u as friend and when their purpose is done, its hard to find them. then later on this keep u making more friends dont be afraid of crawling thing, u mean snakes etc Take caere
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Yeah i do agree that u dont know what other person have in mind, but with this fear u can stop meeeting friend or having good time with them i believe u use ur experience and ur sixt sense to judge the person, squueze happu moment and Dont attach TOOO much expectation Have a nice day a head Take care
@mayka123 (16605)
• India
16 Jul 08
Yes it is difficult to know what is in a persons mind. That is why I avoid close friendship. Thanks a lot for your response and happy posting.
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• Philippines
16 Jul 08
hmm, i'm afraid of being alone, and have a lot of work to do.. i mean loads to do.. like im the only employee with 5-10 construction projects, that i have to supervise all alone.. that scares me..
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Hi Dear thanks for ur response well, loneliness is scary no doubt, but one good thing that u r so occupied that might not be staying alone as far as handling 5-10 construction project make u afraid, so i am sure u just work on project management and i am sure things will be streamlined for U. Its all good management Take care and wish u all the Best
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
16 Jul 08
Zass Firstly nice topic! And now coming to your query, I think I fear the loss of my loved ones the most. I feel very vulnerable on thinking about the fact that I will have to leave alone without them. It kills me. But that's what life is. smiles..
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
16 Jul 08
Hi dear thanks for ur reply and i am 100% agree with u, its the fear i want to hide in bottom of my thoughts, and its valid for me too. now i really feel that friend think a like i know its life but its fact i dont want to face and even dont want to think of it Take care
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
17 Jul 08
very well said, cupid. We should not think about the obvious and make our lives sad! How are you?
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
18 Jul 08
Agreed dear And i am fine tooo, and what about u Busy Bee
@ellie333 (21016)
16 Jul 08
Fear feeds on fear so I tend not to be scared of anything for this reason as it encourages it towards you. Ellie :D
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Hi dear very well said. infact fear is state of mind, and u know what make us afraid, the unknow reason behind any happening make us afraid from that, so what ever mystery is un resolved. AAnd bugs, insects its more that irritation, than fear Take care
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@gloreymay (882)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
I'm so scared of worms and snakes! Every time I saw one, I'm feeling well... hehehe don't know why.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
17 Jul 08
Why do you fear snakes?
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Hi dear thanks for dropping by And sure i can understand what u want to say, The fear of snakle is more dangerous than its poision. even we know that most breeds of snake dont have poision, and even if they have , its cant kill human, but still WE SCREAM as we never know either it has it or not thats why, do u agreee Well i wonder how come u encounters snakes and worms????? Stay away from them and stay safe All the Best
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
hmm, i think she is not sure as what snake is dangerous and which one is Not
@KellyMate (361)
16 Jul 08
Spiders!! They are soo scary! And Moths!
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
16 Jul 08
Hi dear thanks for fast response Well Spiders are really scary and imaging them walking on Skin, errrrrrrrrrrr not a good idea
16 Jul 08
omg!! My little sister is 3 years old and she picked up a spider the other day and ran towards me like ' look what i found kelly ' i was like 'AHH get away from me!' imagine if she put it on me
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
16 Jul 08
Ha ha hai wonder why kids are not afraid of these bugs, my son is 3 yrs as well as he dont mind catching frogs, lizards, cockroach or killing other bugs Well i dont want to Imagine that IF she put that spider on U. one thing i am sure would be Loud Scream, then might be slap to little girlso its good u were safe
@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
16 Jul 08
I don't mind heights so much, but I'll be darned if I let anyone put me in a tub with snakes, worms, bugs or any other creepy-crawlies!
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Hi dear thanks for the response Well well, its Good that u r not afraid of thing, but i am sure that having some time with Snakes, worms and bugs or any other crawlers. its not matching asthetic sense. so i do agree with u Take care and keep away from Crawlers
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
16 Jul 08
I fear the uncertainty and unexpected happenings in my life. Though nothing is certain in life, yet we always feel that we should not lend in any deep trouble or uncalled situation, everything should as per our plans. But each day of life brings us unexpected events, which makes me more nervous. What is your fear factor?
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
17 Jul 08
Many thanks for your kind words.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
U r always welcome
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Hi deepak thanks for ur replies Sure Uncertainity is a fear, and they scary environment we have since last 5-6 yrs is adding more to it, Other thing power, fear on Unknow is domonating the society since ancient aging Take care
@weng_08 (282)
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
Hello Cupid...I can never be a doctor for I cannot stand the sight of blood or wound. Whenever I watch the news I try not to look...I am working on this for I know that I can't always be scared of this...I hope I am a work in progress. Have a great day!
@nupats (3564)
• India
16 Jul 08
hi dear i am very scared of cockroaches, lizards and rats in house....when we are driving i just fear too much of speed and rash driving...and thaough i am a swimmer still i cannot step into a rough sea in monsoon the huge waves just send a chill down my spine i would rather not challenge the nature...and i am not scared but uncomfortable slightly at heights..so thats about it
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
hi dear thanks for ur reply well cockroaches, lizards and rats are common factors at our homes for ladies, so i can co relate. Hmm, u r swimmer, u never told me that, anyway swimming in Pool and swiming in Fast river or sea are totally differnt, u have to take account of weather, time and luner dates so there might not be tides.Nature is great, no onme can even challenge it So Enjoy life wit care, as precations are better prevention
• China
17 Jul 08
fear factor?maybe I fear be cheated by someone or something.that's not a good feeling,you known.if we are getting along very well with somebodies,believe them,help them,give them our own heart,then,one day,we find that they actually are not so good,they are not the ones you think,and even they break your heart.then we will feel it's a total failure.I feel nervous about that things to happen.so I treat everyone carefully.I don't want to be harmed. in fact,the question is a little general and vague,I don't know if I have understood what you are trying to express.so,what's you opinion about that question,can you give me an example?
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Hi dear u reply ok, all i wanted to ask thats what though make u shatter, or result in running cold feeling in ur spine any thing,any thought which u dont want to imagine. as u said u r aafraid of being cheated and being hurt.U dont want to imagine that the people u rely on , trust them can ever Harm u or Betray U. I wish and hope ur true love and trust will remain safe and grow more with passage of time Take care
@nadams80 (77)
16 Jul 08
I'm afraid of birds. They freak me out. Chickens, pidgeons, ducks, all birds. I will not go near them. A bird had made nest under the eaves at our front door when I was still in school. Every entry into the house would be a harrowing experience. Sometimes a bird would be there when you approached and would swoop down and fly off, also startled. Birds that are in a cage I'm fine with. But I woul dnot be comfortable at someone's home if their pet bird were free roaming. I think it's a strange phobia to have. I've always thought something bad must have happened to me involving a bird when I was very young, but my parents cannot recall anything.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Hi dear thanks for ur response Sure its strange, but if its there, its Ok, u just need to over come it and i am sure u can do it as u r fine with birds in cage Birds like chicken, pigeins are harmless, why dont u try to have some Chicks as pet??? What about cooked birds
@srpkinja (375)
• Canada
17 Jul 08
My fear is animals. When I am really close to some animals I get really scared. If I actually had to go on the show Fear Factor and do half of the things they do, I dont know if I would make it out alive by the end of the show, actually, I know for sure; I wouldnt make it out alive. When they eat, touch, have to sit in boxes with weird animals and insects, that creeps me out and I am just watching it over the TV. For me, thats a scary thing to think about. Which is why I will never sign up for Fear Factor or any reality show like that! Thanks, but no thanks.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 08
Hi dear thanks for ur response and trust me u r not alone, billions of people might not be going their either they are afraid of these thing or not. But its weirwed and u need to have more than nerves for that So just relax and calm down Take care
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
roaches and rats eeeewwww,
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
16 Jul 08
thanks for response Hmmmmmm dont tell me u still have rats at ur house.
@060157 (1059)
• Pakistan
16 Jul 08
hmm.. almost all insects lizards rats heights gigantic structures big fountains (really) friends
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
16 Jul 08
Hmmmmmm thanks for responding dear Well u really got a Long List I wonder what would be u doing if some thing come to ur room or kitchen as Lizard, cockriach are common in homes??? Anyway wish u all the berst Dear