what attracts you the most?

wise choice of yours.. it's actually hard to find a girl that understands the mentality of guys.. so it's lucky to find a smart girl! for me I think 1-2-3-4-5 are all my choices I'm greedy and would love to have it all!

But you can't see her brain. So how do you become attracted to begin with? Just curious.

actually it's the behavior and the positive smart creative thinking of a woman that shows the beauty of her brain! of course not the curves on it!

Actually you can have it all I permit you to have more than one option.. less than 5.. just keep on telling your self what you want every night before you sleep.. and it'll come true.

I believe so! but hey I wasn't the one who created this law! for god's sake it was made long before I opened my eyes to this world! you know! human nature!

Saierchok, you sound like you practice the Law of Attraction. Is that the advice your giving here?

LOL well, I guess it's because I'm not really into girls, like I said, I think there are pretty girls.. but I really think most of the ones I think are pretty are the ones who I want to look like, since I was a kid I've had an image of who I wanted to be, and since I'm not there, I kinda see that image as a smaller "top" LOL and just kinda delicate and fragile, like my personality. Well, actually, I must disagree with the hair thing, my dad is 58, and he has all his hair, and it's longer than when I was growing up! LOL So not all older men lose their hair! haha But anyway, well, no.. at this point in my life I don't like older men, I am only , and I have the mindset and interests of someone like 10 years younger! LOL So the oldest I would ever date now would be 26 or something, maybe up to 30 if it was someone who acted much younger. But I tend to be attracted to guys 18-25, most the time. LOL Oh yes, character matters, I said that foremost was a kind heart! LOL I love sensitive guys! It's just seems like there aren't a lot of them out there. I also like funny and smart as well.

your dad still keeps the hair~! God he's so lucky! I wish to be like that! I'm not envying I'm just wishing it too much! and as I told you before! you are beautiful! and you shouldn't look at other girls and wish you were them! who knows what problems they might be hiding behind that beauty! be proud of who you are!

attracted to both!! yaaaay you're hot lol but why don't you like big boobs? that i don't get!! and most men loose their hair at a point of time.. which might mean you don't like old men? and what about the guy's character? does it matter at all?

well of course you can choose all of them!! actually I chose the traits that are mostly wanted in guys.. the ones that attract girls the most.. and I hope you find your dream guy.. and such a wonderful way of explaining how not everything lasts.. and that all is going to be lost but true love..

perfectly said! and perfectly read lol! you sound content of who you have! are you in a relation right now?

a kind hearted lover with smart brains.. and who is going to be a real life prince.. I believe you already have that special one right?

I think she gets the message now! specialy that this prince is gonna propose on a white horse on the bridge! I'm so gonna youtube that! or mylot it if they start the video upload section!

Yes I do and what a prince he is! *daydreaming* *sighs*

I prefer scrawny men. My husband is thin as a rail.

thin as a rail ! that's cool that you have no problems with that! actually here women focus mainly on how fat the guy is, or how muscular, and thin guys come at the end of the desired list!

then you gotta be an intelligent girl, and need a guy who keeps up the beat! so you wouldn't mind having a skinny lover as long as he got the brains right?

I think it's truely a lucky guy's thing , to have a girl with all the features you just mentioned! well I guess I'm single till now waiting for a girl like that! a material girl.. who's smart! Impossible! or near it!

You don't think guys know how attractive their wives are?

in regards to your current way of thinking, i believe not being shallow any more was the wisest choice you made.. unlike me, I believe I'm still a bit shallow when it comes to relationships but not very shallow

Don't get me wrong; I still have a shallow side. It's just not as shallow as it used to be.

how about for gays? well, they can always say their view points!~ and choose any traits they read on this article! and create their man! but I don't think I'll start a discussion out of the interests I added kind hearts for ever

hey! assuming that freddy was smart enough to get away with his damage! jason was no physically attractive at all! I mean he was both ugly and dump! why would you bring such comparasion here?

of course i get your point! you're young and full of energy! and you're a guy! so your standards are high now, and not till you think of setteling down, i wouldn't expect you to change any of your preferences!

wow, these are 7 dude!! I think I put 5 options! any ways you gave us a pretty picture on the one who's going to be your future GF! or current

well said dude! once a man is love , his beloved one becomes his everything, becomes the beauty he dreamt of, the charm he ached for, and the one and only that he sees pretty and perfect.. your words sound like the words of a man in love.. am i right or?? and by the way! welcome to mylot!

lol, but of course ! I mean if you like guys with big boobs you can always go for the chubby! and don't be fooled by his big size! it's not muscles! it's fat!

That's true, gay people will have a a hard time replying to this topic, but I reccon it's hard to make a discussion without stereotyping (not just gender but basicly everything) because it's the way we make the world around us understandable for ourselve; everybody does it to keep some sort of overview and as long as you are aware of them and willing to learn and judge people individually after you get to know them it's not a bad thing .

that is was i am going to say but i saw you saying it already, cyberfluf. our friend here is being sexist. LOL.

I don't have two previous husbands, only one. I am in my second marriage and, yes, I too hope it will last forever. He was the second poor man I married. LOL! We have children together whereas I didn't with my first husband which made it easier to end a marriage to an abusive man. I won't go into detail about that.

I hope it's the marriage that will last forever, the one you have now.. and I wonder , what happened that you had to seperate from your other 2 husbands? if you don't mind telling.. and you truely sound like someone who understands life! so i wouldn't wanna hear you say ever again that you're not as educated or underestimate your abilities! john travolta got the attention of many in that movie.. he showed lots of talent.. maybe you're gonna like indian actors as well, because all they do is dance and sing all the time! so they are talented I'd say!

that's your right my dear not to talk about it! yeah sometimes breaking up is harder when there are kids in between, but when the relation gets abusive then one can't help it but to end it soon, before it gets to the worse.. I hope you truely love the second poor man, and that he loves you back!

a guy who knows what he wants, that's a main feature that indicates maturity and wisdom! lucky you found yours! coz many others haven't!

cool list! which actually suits both genders there are many traits that I can't include all of them in one discussion, I picked up some of them, the ones that intrested me the most, and put them here.. so yours will be next

I wonder if i could throw all of these piercings and tattoes on a godzella! would you still for it? or just throw them on me and be your prince charming!

thanks for sharing your view points! and actually the last one was cool , I mean it's good for me when i know that what's yours is yours, and what's mine is mine!

Anyway thats my point of view and im female. Wouldn't know a males point of view.