My Girlfriend decline my marriage proposal!...

Philippines
July 16, 2008 11:58pm CST
Have you been refused/declined by someone?..or have you refused/declined someone's proposal? How does it feel? What will you do if your girlfriend refused to marry you?
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• Philippines
17 Jul 08
I have a male friend who was declined too and he was raving mad, you see, he has the looks( Tom Cruise), the smarts (honor student) and the killer job (top lawyer) so even if the girlfriend said she felt she was still quite young and needed more time, he couldn't figure out why. It usually takes time to understand, much less accept rejection from a loved one specially if the offer is marriage! but women who refuse have deep reasons and asking and learning about them will shed light. Also, men can use the space to reflect on the relationship, not all rejections end at that, some do get married after some time. So, assess the maturity of the relationship, and see where the girlfriend is coming from with her reasons. If her decision is final then its time to move on, if its tentative, your best bet would be to wait and see if you really should get married in the first place.
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• Philippines
17 Jul 08
What? his girlfriend refused him?..well i can't believe it..because nowadays if the guy has that looks or face value, that brains, and a wow job there's no reason to refuse..lol By the way, just look at the brighter side of it..maybe they're not meant to be together.. and sooner or later he might found someone meant for him. Gudlak to your friend! Good day!
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Jul 08
nope havent experienced that!!i guess your gf is not yet prepared to get married..and maybe would like to enjoy life as it is now at present ..give her time..how old are you?? of course its a sad feeling to be declined or whatever..
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• Philippines
17 Jul 08
Ok thank you for sharing..
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
17 Jul 08
Im sorry about that. But there must be reasons why she refused to marry you. You will have to accept that sad truth and move on with life. There are still a lot of things to consider than getting married and you should be able to decipher the reasons of her refusal. Marriage is not a game people play, its a life long commitment.
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• Philippines
17 Jul 08
yeah!you're right..maybe she's not ready in some point..or maybe they're not meant to be together..at the other side he might found someone better than her gf. thank you for sharing..
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@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
i have an article here in mylot ., and that is "is it ok for a girl to propose marriage to a man ... " funny isn't it? but yes, i find it ok if girl propose to a guy cause when we propose that means we truly love that someone., and it is just one way of showing how true you are about having her/him in a relationship and that you wanted to go on deeper cause you want that girl/guy to be part of your life forever right? here's a thing., what if he/she doesn't accept your proposal? well, it will be hurtful in a way cause you find it like your partner doesn't want to settle down or might not be ready for any responsibility.,well it is not easy to just get married and what after wards when you think that youre not compatible then you will file a divorce ., for us girls we don't want that to happen thats why when we said that we're not yet ready that doesn't mean that we don't love you.,even if we want to settle down we're always looking for a good side wherein if in some case we will be having a baby., we always think or ask a million times in ourselves if we're ready about it? if we can handle those things? hmmmm so it is a very hard decision., i hope you will think it in a negative way.,so just wait for the meantime ., just enjoy your moments together ., and you may try to propose again ... and by that time maybe she is ready for the Big day .,