What do you value most in a friend?

I really don't expect anything from my friends. I know my real friends will always be there for me when I need them. They are always there when have some and during trying times. I'm always ready for them as well. I just live our own lives and share when we meet. It is the trust and confidence in them that is actually built as long as you're friends. Now that you've mentioned it, well probably the only valid expectation from a friend is not to break our trust by betraying us in anyway. Other than that, I guess every thing's fine.

i value honesty becaus ei hate when people lie :( and i value trust :)

The most important thing for a good friendship is the trust. When trust and belief are lost, then there is no purpose in the friendship. And the caring, sharing,love all these also comes into the queue.I have seen a set of friends who are undetachable. They roam around in the college together, study,eat and work together. Everyone was surprised to see their friendship..We all thought how close they are. Two months back, I met one of them. When I enquired her about the other, she did not know any trace of her friend. By someway, they have lost all contacts. They do not have any communication now. But still the friendship lives.The moments that pass away should leave longlasting memories. That is what friendship is..It does not need to be refreshed very often.

dear monkey rose, since I became 18 I stopped really having people around me who i could call best friends, the world became so material to all of my friends that I had to abandon them seconds before they abandon me.. now I'm only having superficial relations that are build on mutual benefit.. I'm not expecting much from the ones I now call my friends, the fact is the only things I'm expecting is respect and a trace of care.. that would be enough for me and them.. because if anything goes beyond respect and things go bad.. I could easily tell them.. you know what.. this relation is going no where.. here it ends

the main thing to me is honesty always.. because i need to trust a friend in what they say to me, and to also trust to say anything to and know it not go any further. And someone that can share problem but also be a good listener.. to be unselfish :) There should be giving and taking in a good friendship.. Definitely the most important thing is honesty.. I had a friend, no a so called friend.. well thought was a friend (in life) she was a 2-faced type.. Anything say to her, she was talking about behind my back to someone else.. Now that type of person is NOT a true friend.. As i always think a true friend if got a problem with you or anything, should be able to say it to your face so at least you can defend yourself.. not talk about you to others.

Hmmmmmmm...Let me think. Ah yes, the things I would value in friendship most would me trust,affection,selflessness and sincerity. A friend who doesnot qualify any of these qualities does not deserve to be ur friend. Thats my opinion.

Hi Monkeyrose.I value his/her good characters of a person most.Whether a man/woman is rich isn't my standard to choose him/her to be my friend.Only when I know he/she is honest,brave and kindheart then I will make friends with him/her.

no expectations...you juz have to accept them for who they are..like a lover,, you cant find a perfect friend, but you can always find a perfect companion, it needs not to be always happy and cool but a place where you can always be yourself,, and do whatever crazy things you want to do and still there to laugh and cry with you..