You can know me without talking to me

@alkurishy (2068)
Iraq
July 17, 2008 8:49am CST
Yes that is true and I can know you too without talking to you, what I mean by know here that you can know my personality from the discussions that I start and the posts that do for other discussions, and I can do so to know your personality too. I have notice that here when I go to any member's profile and start to read what he have started in discussions and what he have wrote in his responses to other discussions, because we all express our feelings and thoughts here. Did you try to do that? am I right about that? please tell me about that, and good day for all.
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21 responses
17 Jul 08
Hi alkurishy, Yes you could be right and you have got me thinking,but some people don't alway tell the truth so it is hard to know their personalty,but you are a very good man I know who cares so much for your wife anc children and you have so much emotions that you share with us and we feel for you. Tamara
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@alkurishy (2068)
• Iraq
17 Jul 08
Well, thanks for these sweet words, and you are good also and have a good thoughts and a good managing with your words. Thanks for your response and have a nice day.
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@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
17 Jul 08
A book can never be judged by its cover. So, we must read its content to really know what the book is about. In the same way, to know a person, we can't really know Him through his likes and dislikes..we need to know how he expresses himself and what he expresses. We need to understand his behaviors and attitudes, his character, his perception about things and finally himself.
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• Mauritius
18 Jul 08
No friend. I don't agree with you about saying that we can know what the book is about by reading its name. It's not such. A book can have a name but explain another thing. Therefore we say that content matters. In the same way, people are also very difficult to understand from just by reading their like or dislikes. So, many people also post just what come in their minds. But to be the real "we", we must take our time to post and ask whether we are reflecting our real nature while posting. Let's be ourself friends. Let's post real.
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@alkurishy (2068)
• Iraq
17 Jul 08
Well, you have a good viewpoint here, but we are dealing here in Mylot with opinions that wrote down by the members here not with them personally. And about your example (the book) you can also know what the book talking about from it's name unless the write of the book are laying in this book. Tanks for your response and have a good day my friend.
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@ellie333 (21016)
17 Jul 08
Hi yes I agree with you that we can learn a lot about a perons personality, like and dislaikes just from the discussions they start and the response they give to others. I have made many friends here who just show so much warmth and understanding in their discussions that I have been drawn to them to request their friendship because of this. You have a really great day too. Ellie :D
@alkurishy (2068)
• Iraq
17 Jul 08
Yes and I have a good friends too here and they are so great, they support me in one day I was so hopeless and upset, their words give a push to rise and go on again, thanks for all of them.
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@paid2write (5201)
17 Jul 08
Yes I do think I know some people quite well from their posts at myLot, and I really like getting to know people from all over the world. I look at people's profiles too and see which discussions they like to respond to, that can tell me something about their interests and personality. Some people write more about their personal life in discussions and others may not want to tell too much about their life, but I don't think it matters, the personality will still show from the way they respond to other people. I feel we are all friends here.
@alkurishy (2068)
• Iraq
17 Jul 08
Yes you are right about that, and thanks for the agreement. We are all here as family of good friends. Thanks for your response and have a nice day.
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
17 Jul 08
That is one thing I love with myLot, I can freely express myself, what I feel, what is inside. Like I said in one of my discussions, The Secret to Make Big in myLot is your HEART. KEEP SMILING = NEIL
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@alkurishy (2068)
• Iraq
17 Jul 08
And that what make me love mylot too, and I agree with you, that we sould be real here and say what we feel. I am happythat I can use the faces at last. Thank you for your response and have a good day.
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@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
Yes, that is so true. That's because myLot is a venue for us to express ourselves with what is going in a particular area of our lives. Sometimes people use this to rant or just to air out their concerns about important issues. We don't really have to be talking to each other on a daily basis to get to know each other. It's like getting personal in an impersonal way.
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@alkurishy (2068)
• Iraq
17 Jul 08
What a perfect explain you have write here, thank you for this good response and have a great day.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
17 Jul 08
It i true.You can know a person by his or her likes and dislikes, the way they use the language, their style of writing ,the way the respond to different situations etc.
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@alkurishy (2068)
• Iraq
17 Jul 08
Thank you or your post and you agreement, and have a nice day.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
8 Aug 08
Hi alkurishy, after reading and replying to the discussions of a same person frequently definitely I could know the personality of the creator. Even though I seldom go through user’ profile, I still could learn his feelings, emotion and thoughts from his words expressed in his posts. The more reciprocation we made with the same person, the more understanding between each other it would be, instead of talking to each other. posting and have nice day.
@alkurishy (2068)
• Iraq
8 Aug 08
Yes you are absolutely right about that. Thank you for your response and have a nice day.
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
7 Aug 08
Hello dear alkurishy. I agree that we can know each other from discussions to discussions because what we think is always there in the discussions. So it is not that difficult to know one if we participate in each other's discussions. What we write reveals our personality. So I think that you are right about it. Good day to you, dear friend.
@alkurishy (2068)
• Iraq
7 Aug 08
Thank you for you agreement and for your response and have a great day.
@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
17 Jul 08
I think that it is because we are not trying to impress anyone here, we are all just giving our opinions.
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@alkurishy (2068)
• Iraq
17 Jul 08
Maybe, but when you someone profile and read what he/she have wrote you can know their opinion and thoughts. Thanks for your response and have a nice day.
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@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
7 Aug 08
I agree with you my friend you can tell a lot about a person from the discussions they start and the responses they give,for example if a person does one line discussions,and one line responses you can tell that they are probably new to mylot or they are just in it for the money,I always try to get an idea of a persons personality by what they type,just like from looking at your discussions and your responses I can tell you have a great personality.
@alkurishy (2068)
• Iraq
7 Aug 08
Thank you my dear friend for the complement, and thank for the response and I hope you have a great day.
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• United States
7 Aug 08
I would not say something if it was not true,and and you are a very good friend,and I always enjoy responding to your discussions,because you write some awesome discussions,and I look forward to responding to you again,have a great day,good luck in your life,and Happy Posting.
@CharRay7 (1549)
• United States
18 Jul 08
Hi my friend You've really got a point there. Without even talking to someone personally, by going to their profile and read the discussions and responses they posted, you tell alot about that person. I know I give my feelings, thoughts, opinion and views when I post in discussions and I'm sure most every body else does to. Good post! Have a great day, Char
@alkurishy (2068)
• Iraq
19 Jul 08
Thank you for the agreement and that exactly what I thinking about when i start this discussion. Have a nice day my friend.
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
7 Aug 08
Yup, you can more or less guess at a person's character, by the topics posted, and the comments made. It's in the words the person used, the terms, the responses - it doesn't matter if the person is good in English or not, a person's sincerity and sympathies shows. The profile is sometimes very misleading - we tend to either dress up or down!
@alkurishy (2068)
• Iraq
7 Aug 08
Yes that is right, thank you for your response and have a good day.
18 Jul 08
i m a technical person of elctronics field of engineering from INDIA jammu the city of temple if u want more then u visit my profile if u want to share some more infomration of my personalty then feel free to mesaage me
@alkurishy (2068)
• Iraq
19 Jul 08
Thanks for this request I respect that. Have a nice day.
@AshleyHasan (1024)
• India
18 Jul 08
Yes some extent you are right you can know the person by reading their discussions or the discussions which they have responded to.
@cutelang (83)
• Philippines
18 Jul 08
ya that is true,however it is not only exactly
• China
18 Jul 08
I agree with you.We can know others throught a lot of ways,talking is one of them.I prefer to read people's profile, their articles and photos taken in life.It's their real activity,showing what they like or dislike.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
18 Jul 08
Yes your can learn about a person by looking at their profile, but the best way to learn about a person is to see what they say when they comment in a discussion. If you follow a certain person who is your "friend" you can learn alot about them by following their posts. You can't base knowing a person on their profile alone.
@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
18 Jul 08
Basically here you have people's minds talking for them. In life in Real they try to hide just be social, etc. But be aware that some are just roleplaying also. Me what you see is what you get!
• United States
18 Jul 08
well it is true other people could be talking of you. or you just might know her likes and things like that. you dont always need to know a person just by talking to them you just might share the same personality