long last relations, do you trust her/him more or ??

@cavtel (186)
Indonesia
July 17, 2008 9:21am CST
Hi guys, i want to hear you guys opinion about long relationship, like you've been with this girl/boys for more than 2 years, and yes you still there together, do you trust her/him more ? or you just don't care because you already hooked up with her/him for so long? And, do you ever get the feeling of "bored" in your relationship ? someone said to me that, after 2 years relations, we all will feel this "bored peak situattion" that you just don't care enough for her/him more.
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
18 Jul 08
It's been a year and 6 mos. with my girlfriend. Basically my girlfriend is always busy with work for her there's a lot of things to do everyday and every time I go home she just smile and kiss me and whisper to my ears I love you! How's your day dear? Maybe you will just feel bored when you can't talk of anything else like growth or something new. I relationship there's always should be romance it should not stop. Relationship also exchange ideas opinions and exchange minds or it's better two minds then one. You should learn something new everyday. A relationship get bored when one just stay alonealways same thing to do I guess. Have a nice day!
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
17 Jul 08
We cannot predict it. Some get go, some get failed. But I will put my own relationship here as an example. I was with her for three and a half years, and we are still tagging along fine. There wwere times we felt bored, but that's normal I think. As long as we do not break up, that's still okay. We've got many variations to let us fresh and bonded. One important thing; If you both focus on the same goal, I believe you don't need to talk about trust or something like that. Your goal is to be together, that's all...
• United States
17 Jul 08
You should trust them more if you have been with them that long, Yes there is a bored stage in a relationship after than long. It just happens there is nothing to can do ut keep the love alive, try new things that you havn't don't before just try new things.. I havn't been with my husband that long we knew each other 5months than we got married and we are going through a bored stage right now and all we can do is do things that we havn't don't like try a new place to eat, try new things in the bed, try new things like going to the beach or go do new adventious stuff that you both will enjoy
@pkraj111 (2458)
• India
17 Jul 08
I trusted her more but finally ended with a breakup