How to deal with a cheater?
By jjavier65
@jjavier65 (23)
United States
July 17, 2008 10:43am CST
Have you ever experienced being cheated upon? How would you deal with a person so close and cheating on you? What if you have evidences to show and the person still denies the wrong doings?
4 responses
@jjavier65 (23)
• United States
17 Jul 08
No I dont trust the person anymore but I still continue living with the same person as there are some people around us that needs our support. It really hurts but I have to live with it for the sake of these people.
@anawar (2404)
• United States
17 Jul 08
Yes, this happened to me, I think. The person denied it, but there was evidence that he was cheating. Because I didn't know for sure, I stayed for too long and wasted my time.
Before I read your response to #1, I would advise you to leave. If a person lies, you don't know what else they might do that would hurt you. I found out the hard way.
For some reason, you have to stay in this relationship. Taking a wild guess for a solution- ignore him or her as much as possible? This person doesn't deserve your love, respect or your attention.
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
17 Jul 08
You stated in another reply that you are staying because there are people around you, who need your support. You can leave the cheater and still be in a position to support those, who need it. Some people feel unduly bound because of circumstances, may it be because they think the children need mother and father, may it be that elderly parents need support... Any situation can be resolved to the benefit of all involved. There is no need to stay with a cheater. It only causes heartbreak, even for those who you think you protect if you stay.
