How do you end a bad relationship?

@msedge (4011)
United States
July 17, 2008 4:43pm CST
Many people are passive about ending a bad relationship.Even if it is obvious to you and to the people around you that you are in a bad relationship,it is still difficult to end.Many people end bad relationships only to find themselves back in a similar or worse relationship.By addressing childhood memories and issues it is possible to end unhealthy relationship,rebuild your self esteem and attract healthier people in your life.
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• India
17 Jul 08
Well infact it is not easy to end a bad relationship.So instead of directly ending u can better remiss them
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@msedge (4011)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Thats true
@alpha7 (1910)
• France
18 Jul 08
If the relationshiip is very bad,just avoid fighting with each other before breaking up. This will give you a very good image and good chances of getting a better person.
@msedge (4011)
• United States
25 Jul 08
A nice talk will be better.
@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
18 Jul 08
I would end a bad relationship through serious talking. Talking is the best way to end a relationship to solve all the issues; thus, closing all the doors properly for both of you. We should face every problem we have had. I know everything will be alright in the right time.
@msedge (4011)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I agree
@kingcrapper (1536)
• United States
18 Jul 08
I have to so agree with the idea of dealing with childhood issues and memories. Here I am in my late 30's and I actually had someone tell me that the reason I do what I do and act the way I do is because my dad was just that way. I see my father as very selfish and self centered and I am going to over ride any tendencies to be that way. It is amazing to me how much those memories and issues can affect adult behavior and how deep it can go!
@msedge (4011)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I'm sorry to hear that.I am glad you are not like him.
@dsharat (456)
• India
18 Jul 08
I hate bad relationships...!!I just avoid those kind of relations with any one... Its better to get rid of them before they get worse....nd they become some sort of an issue in our life...
@msedge (4011)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Oh yes,it will just cause pain and sufferings!
• United States
18 Jul 08
it is best to just try to end the relationship and move on-at all costs
@msedge (4011)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Right
• Canada
17 Jul 08
I am extremely blessed that I hae never had to end a bad relationship. If I needed to get out, and I had a way out (I would make sure I found a way out) I would not worry aout the eeligs of the bugger who hurt me. I'd jut do what I needed to do, and get the heck out of there!!!
@msedge (4011)
• United States
25 Jul 08
• United States
17 Jul 08
good relationship, bad relationship.. whichever one you're on, is a difficult thing to handle because its not only about you, its also about the other. i would say proper timing, a good amount of honesty, some tact (dont say what you dont have to say), some practical reasoning can usually end it amicably. However, there's not enough rehearsing, or planning that will give you the warranty it will end the way you want it as like i said, it's a two-way thing. half of it at least will depend on how the other will take it.
@msedge (4011)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Yeah right it needs two to a tango.You have to agree to each other whatever the outcome of your relationship because your both on it together.
• United States
18 Jul 08
Personanlly you just tell them.. you can't just not call them anyore thats not right.. I would just tell them what is going on what you don't like about that and why you want the relationship to end.. That is the only they you can do is tell them whats going on in your mind, that what i would do and have done... Or you can't write them an e-mail and stop calling them and stop answering their phone calls and after you write the e-mail send them a text telling the to read their e-ail... Thats is the only thing you can do.
@msedge (4011)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Yes you have to tell the person personally why you decided to do this and that and explain.Who knows there might be a reconciliation that may happen.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
18 Jul 08
..you're right.. however, it would benefit a lot to end the relationship as early as possible than to suffer for a longer period of time.. it will only let the love between the two to be totally removed and respect will also fade away..
@msedge (4011)
• United States
25 Jul 08
If you think the relationship didn't work anymore so you have to decide to end or if it takes longer the more you hurt each other.