Lies and no support in love

Why settle for a relationship where you are lied to and don't feel important? It seems to me that if this girl really loved you she would not lie to you so that she can do other things and that she would be trying to make you feel important to her. I can't understand why someone would waste their love on someone like that. You deserve to be treated well so why not find a girl who really does love you and will show it?

Relationships are complicated and multi-dimensional. The pendulum swings and sometimes you find yourself doing more of the giving and at other times, your partner does. That is normal. However, if your partner almost never gives back to you, then your relationship is not mutually beneficial, as it should be. Lying is a whole other issue, and quite a serious one as far as I am concerned. Once the bonds of trust are broken, so is the foundation of your relationship. When your partner has lied to you, especially repeatedly, you are left feeling insecure and unhappy. You may feel gypped that you see her giving to others what you need her to give to you. It may be time to closely evaluate your relationship. Does she give back to you? Are you happy and secure? Does your relationship fill your heart or leave you empty hoping and wishing for more? Do you see qualities in her that you admire and desire and does she share them with YOU? Does she support you as a person or does she chastise you? Ask these questions of yourself on a whole, beyond this moment of hurt and frustration. Remember that two people can genuinely love and care for eachother, but...that does NOT mean that they can have a happy, healthy and successful relationship together.