If you had good news, who would you call first?
@beautyqueen26 (16030)
United States
July 18, 2008 12:52pm CST
If you were to find out good news, who would you
call first? Spouse? Sister? Best friend?
If you found out that you were pregnant, or just
got fired, who would you want to talk with first
for support?
If I had really good news to share, most
likely I'd call my spouse first.
He's the first one to know all the good
and bad things going on in my life.
He's a really big part of my personal
support system.
Years ago, I would have called a friend or brother,
but now, I keep my good news closer to home.
What about you?
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136 responses
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
18 Jul 08
I would call my spouse and my parents as the first people to know, it also depends on the situation I guess. If for example I found out I was pregnant then my spouse would definatly be the first one to know, if I loose some pounds with hard work it's something I most likely tell my mom first .
Not sure who I'd call first when loosing a job, I guess my mom because I still live at home and would have to find out if there is some way she can support me through college as I wouldn't have a job for some time untill I found a new one. My boyfriend/fiance is still in college too so it's hard to ask him for this type of support even though I would call him next straight away for emotional support.
@beautyqueen26 (16030)
• United States
19 Jul 08
Definitely your mom would have to know
about something like that.
It's nice that you are on good speaking terms
with her.
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@Chispa514 (871)
• Montreal, Quebec
18 Jul 08
If I got some good news the person I'd call first would most prbably be my sister Shannon in Nova Scotia. Her and I are very close and we always call each other whenever something big happens in our lives.
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@beautyqueen26 (16030)
• United States
19 Jul 08
Growing up, I wished that I had a sister.
Brothers are not a replacement for sisters!
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@GardenGerty (160949)
• United States
18 Jul 08
First, my husband, then my brother and dad, or wait, maybe my son and daughter.
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@beautyqueen26 (16030)
• United States
18 Jul 08
It's wonderful to hear that you have a good
support system! Family is so important!
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@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
18 Jul 08
If I had good news, I wouldpick up the phone and call my husband first! He's working in AZ right now, and I'm in Ontario, so our bestmeansocommunicaionisyphone. Wetalk a number of times a day, and share all of our good news with eachother.
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@beautyqueen26 (16030)
• United States
19 Jul 08
When my spouse was working seven days a week
we were so lucky to have cell phones. We talked
constantly by cell during his absence.
Otherwise, our schedules were different so we
never got to see each other at home, except for an
hour or so a day.
Things are different now and he doesn't work nearly so
much. I'm OK with that.
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@Xdrowninghavocx (3117)
• United States
18 Jul 08
I usually end up keeping information to myself. And that's usually for the meantime. I just like having good news kept to myself because of the rush that comes with that news. Eventually I'll tell someone in my family.
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@beautyqueen26 (16030)
• United States
19 Jul 08
That's cool!
I'm a big blabber mouth so rarely can
keep stuff to myself.
But I'm pretty good with other people's
secrets.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
19 Jul 08
LOL..If i was PG.I'd call Amazing Stories..Hee hee and if i was fired i'd yell at myself..since i'm my own boss..LOL
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
18 Jul 08
Hi beauty,
I will inform my husband first then my parents and sister! they are the most important people in my life and sharing to them my excitement, happiness and discouragement will make me feel more complete!
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@michele_villasenor (624)
• Philippines
18 Jul 08
Spouse first, then family as in father and siblings, then close friends.
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@gemini_rose (16264)
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18 Jul 08
Good news, it would definately be my hubby first. He is always the first person I call with anything, well not call exactly but text. I just automatically tell him everything first and then it would be my Mum after that.
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
18 Jul 08
There are only 2 people in my life I go to with any kind of news. My husband is almost always the first I go to, especially if it's really big news. My best friend is usually the second I go to. The only time I'd ever go to the best friend first is because she's slightly more convenient, because I'm in IM with her almost constantly while hubby is at work.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
19 Jul 08
If I would have good news, I would tell it to my girlfriend first.
She is the one to whom I share the world with and every part of my
life with. That will also hold true for bad news. I know she will
be the one to whom I can count on when I need support.
Have a nice day!
@tamarafireheart (15384)
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18 Jul 08
Hi beautyqueen26,
When My mother was alive, she was the first person I would run to and tell whether its good news or bad news but now I tell my husband and my sister.
Tamara
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@carolscash (9492)
• United States
18 Jul 08
Yes, I would call my spouse first and then my best friend. I try to share all the news with my husband first. I would for sure tell my friend as she is always listening to my problems as well as my news. Of course, I would share it with my kids too if it was something that they should know.
I believe that it is extremely important to have a network of people that you can talk to when you need to share something.
@britishidol (45)
• Czech Republic
19 Jul 08
I will Call my GUREDEV to ask for Support for any reason . As I know he only can help me in that situation and for good News . As by sharing with him it will increase my Confidence and strength more . As he is Experienced and Honest person . Who will always drive me in Proper path . See the new Blog successbymail.blogspot
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@ladyfriendship (1)
• Netherlands Antilles
19 Jul 08
i would call my freinds. i dont have much trust in my mother. she dont understand me. every thing i talk is like nothing for her. but i love her. i would call my freinds.
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@andrewe99 (64)
• Australia
19 Jul 08
I would first tell my brother and my family. Simply because my brother is probably the one I am closest to and my are the ones I live with and obviously play a very big part of my life. Aside from my family, I guess the first person I would tell would be my best friend.