If you were Upset , Angry, oR disSapointed by SOmething a cLoSe fRiend did
By Adeliza1220
@Adeliza1220 (877)
United States
July 18, 2008 2:03pm CST
would you let them know directly or will you hold those emotions just to avoid problems and conserve the friendship or just let it go.
6 responses
@ProudMommy22 (705)
• United States
7 Sep 08
Me personally i would confront them about it. Im a blunt persona dn all my friends know it and they know i dont care where we are or whos around i will say what i need to say and let them know real fast about what happend. But for the most part jsut depends on the situation but im still blunt about everything and will say something about it to them.
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@Adeliza1220 (877)
• United States
7 Sep 08
Thank you for your response and for sharing what you do in these type of situations.
@polaris714 (607)
• Philippines
19 Jul 08
If it was about something that needs to be corrected right away, I would discuss it with her. But if it can wait, I would hold my emotions until I feel more level-headed so that I can look at what happened more objectively. If its not really important then I would just let it go, although I admit I would be silently angry for a while :)
@Adeliza1220 (877)
• United States
19 Jul 08
THank you for the response you gave on sharing your point of view on the subject.
@Xdrowninghavocx (3117)
• United States
19 Jul 08
I hold everything until it decides to come out and greet the person I'm angry with. I'm not really one for talking so I tend to stay silent until I've bottled up enough energy to expel it. It's not the healthiest way to do things, I know this. I just need to time to cool off before trying to make things better.
@Adeliza1220 (877)
• United States
19 Jul 08
Thank you for sharing your view on this topic and ecpressing what you do in these cases-
@Lil_Piglett27 (12)
• United States
18 Jul 08
yes i would let them now how i feel about a situation or whatever becuase it's not good to hold in anger or disappoinment or anything.... so it would be best to just tlel that person how you feel and everything...
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
18 Jul 08
It happened to me some years back.I came to know my best friend lied to me.I stopped trusting her completely.I never confronted her with this issue but she came to know about it later. I prefer to maintain a distance from her. She is still my friend but not my best friend anymore.
@Adeliza1220 (877)
• United States
19 Jul 08
THank you for sharing your experience and the action that you took against the situation.
@Dragon93 (97)
• United Kingdom
18 Jul 08
I mainly hold it in because otherwise, My mates would not want to hang around with me anymore, happened before about 3 months ago, a mate said "Oh lets not hang around with her..." they do that all time tbh... No one really likes me much -_-' havnt got great mates really :S. so i rather hold it in and tell someone i really trust instead of them.
@Adeliza1220 (877)
• United States
19 Jul 08
THank you for sharing your thoughts on this subject and what you do and why