Long Distance relationships!

I am in one right now, my husband is in Iraq... lots of letters and phone calls when you can

dont worry... u will be happy soon

long distance relationships hardly ever survives, this depends on how much you realyy love each other the good news is Yes there are long distance relationship who succeeds and are happily married

Its the most hard kind of relation. You have to keep faith in ur partner, Also try and call them once a day. And tell them how much you love them. But the main thing is trust and devotion.

Long distance relationships are very hard and they only get harder the more involved you become. I had to look at the relationship in terms of where I saw it going and what needed to happen to get it to that point. Regardless if it becomes quite a serious relationship one of you will have to close the distance for it to ever get better. HTH - I ended up moving 3000 miles away leaving all my friends and family(after demanding a proposal) and 5 years and 2 kids later we are very HAPPY!

just hang in there. i had one for about 3 months untill he finally moved up with me. it takes time, i know you get sad sometimes, but you'll be together again...just a lot of phone calls and letters.

I'm looking for a place with my long distance guy soon! Hang in there if you really care about this person. Try to keep yourself occupied; maybe learn something (like html, sewing, whatever) you've always wondered about or get started on reading some books you've always meant to get around to. Also remember that you CAN'T do the same things during a conflict that you do face to face... you really have to up and SAY "I'm getting annoyed with you for no reason right now... no... I'm downright pi$$y... I think I'm just really stressed and was hoping that our phonecall would be all lovey dovey right before bed instead of boring stuff about your job because I need that right now" instead of whatever else you'd do. It feels weird at first but it REALLY works. Good luck :)

Stick with it. Be patient. I married mine.

im also in a long distant relationship, but my lover lives in a different country do u think i should carry on with this relationship?

I have been in a long distance relationship for about 7 y. If u really love each other it will work. The phone calls and internet really helps. Try to speak at least one time per day and communicate by mail once a day. That is what I have done for many years.