Feel lonely? just do this to feel good

I know my (absent) wife is also a friend of yours. I hope she reads and responds, because that's exactly how I feel when she's away.

That is so sweet. I do that sometimes too when I feel down I just listen to music. Maybe you can leave some sweet messenger messages or emails to your wife once in a while. In a way you can let her know your feelings and at the same time you will make her happy too.

Very well said, my friend. I haen't seen my husbad in three months, but he will be here in as little as three weeks. I can't wait to see him!!! It'll be great. Wen will your wife return rom Iraq? I hope she'll be home soon. Here is a link for you, of one of my husband's and my favourite songs. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQEjwKs_hpg

I am feeling lonely at home because my husband works in another town and he comes back once a week but only for ahort time. I have my son to accompany me but he too has busy life outside. However I am able to pass my time by browsing in the internet reading news, and looking for useful information. Realising I need to occupy my time constructively, my son introduce MyLot program to me. After that I am not so lonely anymore.

thank you thats very sweet. but whom do i see when i close my eyes ? :((((((( i dont have anyone that will at some time come home to me.. so whom? but i know l loneliness that leads to feeling depression does come suddenly.. normally i can handle it.. then suddenly i can not, then next day i back to normal. loneliness strange feeling..

That's a good way to handle loneliness my friend. If you don't already, I would suggest you talk to her over the phone or internet a lot, that would help too. Dealing with loneliness has never been a real problem for me, yet. I'm still 16 years old and had to make a tough choice. Most of my friends were fake, they would never acknowledge me, and that in turn made me feel lonely. Then I decided to stop acting so needy and be independent. I stopped talking to all of them, and found a couple true friends in the mist. Even though I only have a couple people in my life I consider friends, I feel less lonely then I was before. Hang on dude, if she still loves you like a wife then you have all the affection in the world.

hi alkurishy! oh that is so nice! and you are such a sweet guy. by the way, where is your wife and when is she coming back? she should commend you for being such a faithful partner. i hope she comes back soon so you can be together again. good day and God bless you!:-)

Oh man your a sweet hubby.. lovely !!! your wife is so blessed .. my boy friend ,the whom i'm going to marry is in U.S i guess it will take more than a year to meet him in person i cry a lot we only meet through online but since he is very busy he cannot even spend time with me these days.. it has been 2 days since he contacted me he jus sent a mail where he asked me to pray that we both should get united soon in marriage very early soon after my studies... so people who are staying away are far better than me so be happy that too away from your spouses or boy friend's or girl friend's... all the best for ur happy life...

Hi alkurishy, That is very kind of you to think of another when you yourself are alone. It's nice to know that you have found such a way to think of your wife, and I hope that she will be home with you again soon. Blessings.

Yes I think listening to music can reduce feelings of loneliness and make you feel good. I think your wife must feel lonely too without you and I hope you will be together again soon. Being active at myLot is another way to feel less lonely, as there are so many good people here. We can all make each other smile and we can feel we are among friends. I hope your friend mandykaren feels the same way. Have a nice day and happy myLotting.

May your friend know that she does have people that care deeply about her more than words can say. It's a friend like you that can fill a empty hole in a heart like mandykaren's and comfort her knowing that you are there for her no matter what through the thick and thin. Friends stand by one another and listen to eachother in the time of need and won't mislead them. A friend will be there for you and love you better than anyone that has broken your heart and left you crying in sadness. May you feel the comfort of a hug a shoulder to lean on and a warm smile to brighten your day. Cheer up friend someone cares about you and never will forsake you but will remain with you forever and always.

Hi Alkurishy, it's a terrible feeling! Years back, when my husband was working in another country, I felt just as bad. His contract was for about 1-2 years. So we communicated through the phone almost daily (there was no ICQ or Skype then).The first month, I cried almost daily. Later I got myself busy with work, my family (parents & siblings) and my interests (books). I love reading, so I would spend a lot of time in bookstores and sales. I still missed him very much; but at least, it wasn't so paralysing as before. Anyway, the missing part was good - absence makes the heart fonder. I learned to value him more - I believe you feel the same for your wife too. So take care of yourself! I believe your wife misses you just as much!

Hi alkurishy, Remember she will be back soon, and play some happy music and think of all the funny things she used to say and can laugh and not feel so sad, or you write her letters and tell her how you are feeling and don't post them, keep untill she comes back and she read it then. Be happy it won't be long. Tamara

Yes it's true that somehow to ease your loneliness, you just keep on logging here in mylot. There are a lot of mylotters who are just more than willing to keep your company through discussions and conversations. For sure if you are really engrossed with the discussions you will forget that feeling of loneliness and we are always here to make sure that you have someone to talk to.

alkurishy hi okay I will say some prayer for mandy karen and hope she can enjoy some music to make her less lonily and tellher that all us mylotters are wishing her happier times and lots of cheer.good luck mandykaren and GodBless.also for you alkurishy good luck good cheer and pleny of happiness for you and yours.

Its really great feeling for some one who love ,its great to have such relationship,u will feel so close if they are too far also