Do you think that quarrels are part of a relationship???
By alcazar
@alcazar (761)
India
July 19, 2008 1:54am CST
I have observed many couple quarrel over silly things ..most of them come out cleanly but some .....a very few turn out to be more complex disputes.....
According to me that its commmon to quarrel with your loved ones but later our love for them comes over the anger and we just forgive them.....and when we are away from them we know their real value?//what do you think bout this???
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3 responses
@3r7sweetie (937)
• Philippines
19 Jul 08
Quarrels are part of a healthy relationship. It makes the bond of the couple stronger. Quarrels actually make the couple see things at a different perspective. It makes them understand some things better. Moreover, it adds color to a relationship. However, petty quarrels should be resolved immediately and should not be made to result to more serious disputes, which, in turn, may break relationships. If the couple will just let their quarrels go away after sometime and forgive each other and let love overcome their anger toward each other, they will notice that their little quarrel will actually lead to a more romantic experience and a sweeter love for each other.
@3r7sweetie (937)
• Philippines
19 Jul 08
And oh, I agree with richiem and indianapedi. Quarrels in healthy relationships should not be physical. There are limitations to that. If couples tend to hurt each other physically, I think that is no longer normal and the more that it should be resolved immediately. If something like that continues everytime couples quarrel, I think they better part ways especially if there is no more chance that their quarrels can be resolved.
@Kemboi (341)
• Eldoret, Kenya
19 Jul 08
Yes, remember you were not born the same with your loved one, either you have the same personalities, everyone of has got difference personalities there are so many likes and dislike which can be found by both of you. The only way is to learn to be patient to one to another. It has been said love covers a lot of multitude of sins, we should learn to avoid quarrelling especially when we have children who are grown up.
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
19 Jul 08
I think it is normal to have quarrels with your loved ones. I think
if two lovers won't quarrel, there is a problem between them.
Quarreling only shows that you are two different persons with
unique interests. This is not bad at all.
And the best part of it is when you resolve the quarrel. You
will emerge more caring to each other, more understanding and
your relationship is more stronger now.
I am not talking about physical quarrels here.
Have a nice day!
