cake means??
By jem0989
@jem0989 (9)
Philippines
July 19, 2008 5:14am CST
someone give me a cake.. i dont know why he did it.. i'm quite confused if it has a meaning.. i asked him.. he said its better to give than to receive.. huhhuhu.. i dont know how should i react with that statement.. he said, dont give meaning in what he is doing. because he just like to see me happy.. bur unforunately i just want him to be my friend.. not more than that.. he refused to tell the real sence of thet cake.. omg.. it's yummy!! hahaha.. sssooo much!
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3 responses
@MOMMASAM (1004)
• United States
19 Jul 08
accept this friend's gesture.
if you had a friend, it would be totally OK to make them a cake, wouldn't it?
this would brighten up their day.
makes them smile.
tastes good.
and you'd feel good doing something nice for them.
do you know his other friends?
does he do nice gestures for them, too?
i'd just let it go and enjoy the cake.
if he keeps doing this....then, of course, gently set him straight.
it's the total of all of his behaviors which would give you the best clue.
@MOMMASAM (1004)
• United States
20 Jul 08
if he is nice and gentle
AND
knows how to bake a cake
then he's worth his weight in gold !
you'll be more aware of his agenda
when you next meet him. does he act
differently towards you? does he stand
or move closer to you ? do his eye linger
on you longer?
all of these are the signs (and there are many,
many more) that he is "interested" in more than
friendship.
The gift of friendship is something noble to bestowe
upon someone. i never take this gift lightly.
@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
19 Jul 08
hi jem!!!
well i guess you can't really do much but enjoy the cake if he refuses to tell you! lol but hey, i would like for someone to give me a nice hefty slice of almond caramel cheesecake!!! yum!!
okay, now, i am craving for a cake. my tummy is already big from eating and here i am imaginging cake!
hehehe just play it cool dear and don't make expectations. just enjoy the friendship...and for now, the gifts. they m ay be given innocently,.:)
good day and God bless you!