how do you deal with jealousy??

Although i may not appear to be i am a very jealous person, but at the same time i have never alowed it to control me.- I have been direct whenever i have had any issues concerning jealousy. The best thing to do is to communicate with your partner to confirm if your feeling is right you don´t want to jump to any conclusions with out knowing the reality.( although ill tell you that the guys i have encountered tend to lie just to not cause problems)

Hi luisabete, My husband and her ex has a contact for 2 years because of my husband's voluntary support for her for 2 years...When I came in in the picture, he was still paying it and oftentimes, the ex will call to follow up the so called financial support.. I am not affected actually since I know it was my husband who asked for a divorce and I am confident that he loves me...That his past is past and I am sure, he doesn't like to go back there! When he is with you, that is the indication that he choose you now, but we also can't stop them to talk sometime for some reason! I don't really know your situation since the info you give is limited but to get over that feeling, just focus that their relationship is over and it will be ideal if he knows that you are not comfortable in their contact!

Jealousy is not something to be taken lightly of and if we dun handle it properly, things can get out of hand and totally out of control very easily.. WHat i will know is to confront my gf straight away to know what is really happening, to ease my mind.. And if the situation is reversed, i will tell her the truth too and wun hide anything, and also will not contact my ex at all, to prevent the same thing from happening again in the future ^_^