after breaking up,what will you do?

After a break up, I move on... Like nothing happened. I only cry when im missing the person already or something reminded me of him. I write a poem, putting into words what i feel. I go out and shop, or get a new haircut. Sometimes I lock myself in my room and watch dvds. As much as possible i dont talk about it. I dont want my friends to know more, I dont want to answers questions... After a break up, I usually want to be alone.

I usually cry myself out because I think this can ease the pain that I'm feeling. It's not being hard on myself, it's just something that we cant ignore because after all we did our best to make our relationship work but sadly it didnt. You cant get out and pretend that you're ok even if you're not. Pour out your feelings once and for all and if crying is the way for you to do it then let it be

I'll stand up being alone. Pick up the pieces of my life again. I'll think what is best for me that she is gone. I'll keep myself busy not to think of the memories,time I spend with her. Getting used to not talking to her or even see her shadow. I'll think something that will be fun for me to do just not to be sad. Remove her things in my room even the pictures. Erasing everything that we belong with each other. I'll go to church to ask God to give me the strength to go on.Have a nice day!

If I would break up I would go out and try to find a new house for me and my kids. I would then try go get more hours to work so I can provide for them. I would go to my mum and cry, I would have to get a moving truck to get all my stuff out of the house. Go to the bank to take out all my money and cancel our joint accounts. If I was going to break up there are so many things that need to be arranged so I would be to busy to even cry about it.

at 1st i found a silence place & there i go & cry ....then i decide to do something ..that how cani control mu self

I will go out and have some fun. I will not stay at hoe and it will only make me feel more miserable. round up a group of friends and hit the town. I will do something fun and exciting like a night of dancing or bar hopping. Maybe you can try to plan a weekend beach or camping trip or take a quick out of town getaway. Going out with friends will remind you that being single can be just as fun as being in a relationship. It will also help to keep your mind off of your ex.

Best thing to do is cry. There's nothing wrong a little regression to do. And you cry it and let it all out , you will feel better the next day. If you don't feel better then you cry much harder. Talk to a friend, keeping you busy ,try gambling so will have another problem or improve yourself physically ,mentally and emotionally to stay strong.

A good thing to do is to go travel if you can. New places, new people, etc. Is always good!