are you possessive?
By shav9292
@shav9292 (928)
India
9 responses
@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
20 Jul 08
Yes I am very possessive. At first, I was very possessive with my love because I wanted good principles to integrate in our life- principles of truth, sincerity and trust. Little by little, the way I was started making no difference. She got used and was very happy to live as me because she likes the principles of truth and trust. You see, being possessive not necessarily makes a relationship bitter but if both the partner likes the principles and are very sincere, the fact of being possessive goes unnoticed. She is very happy and I am very happy with our relationship and we will marry in about 4 years :)
@jinxky (2248)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
im not possessive but im very jealous lol is it the same? hahaha... i used to have a possessive bf, & i cant breathe with him, thats why i broke up with him. i dont want to have possessive bf. it's just like im losing my freedom hehehe...
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
20 Jul 08
Looking back on my past relationship, I don't think I am. Well, compared to my ex he was more possessive of me than I was of him. It bothered me a bit because even if I talked to older guys he would be jealous and would try to take me away somewhere else. I felt at the time I didn't react much about his possessiveness because I loved him. I didn't want to lose him of course so I wouldn't argue anymore.
@blackleft (4)
• United States
29 Jul 08
I am not posessive because if u look back it would seem as if you are making that person into your own personal slave, but no one is anybody's property so theres on point in "owning" them..
@rachel08 (9)
• China
31 Jul 08
Take care. A little is Ok. But if you want to much you will lost everything. I have made a survey on the single parent dating club called soloparentdate.com. It shows 65% of them broke up just because their partner are selfish.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
17 Nov 08
I consider myself as a possessive wife. Honestly, I hope my husband can't read this, I don't want to see my husband talking to other girls especially to strangers. Eventhough I don't tell him that but I really got hurt everytime I saw him talking to other ladies.
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
I am very possessive sometimes.
If i really love the guy.
Every time i see him talking to other
girls, i get jealous. I'm aware it's not
good. I'm trying to change it.
@majestic12 (270)
• United States
26 Jul 08
I am not possessive, thats an insecurity...insecurities are weaknesses, women that are attracted to strong confident men find weakness as a bad thing.
If you are exclusive with someone (like you said), it is OK so long as it is kept at a minimal. A female likes it when their man is a little jealous, makes them feel good + wanted...they love that stuff.