will you tell everything to your boyfried or girlfriend?
By alian818
@alian818 (112)
China
July 20, 2008 8:00am CST
when two people fall in love,they want to know everything about each other.but if there something bad or embarrassing that you won't let him/her know,but she/he ask about it.what you gonna to do?lie ,or tell the truth?
3 responses
@relundad (2310)
• United States
21 Jul 08
I would tell the truth. If its something that is part of your past what does it matter? Its just that the past. If its something that I am currently involved then I think it may have an impact on the relationship so I think its important to let that person know. That way you give the person the opportunity to decide if this is something that they are willing to live with.
If your partner poses the question they normally have a reason for asking, as it has some importance to them. I think that integrity and honesty is very important in every relationship that we are a part of.
@laoli123 (17)
• China
20 Jul 08
I almost tell everything to my boyfriend.people need to talk to someone they believe, then why not choose boyfriend or girlfriend, or husband or wife.Those are close person for one.But in some special case, some good lies can be helpful, honest is not the only way you can choose.Just like for example she or he has a very terrible disease,will you tell her or him the truth?So love is the basic principle, lie or not, sometimes depend on it.:)