21st july a date i want to forget

Wow that is scary... my father had cancer that almost killed him TWICE and the first time was at the age of 27. To say the least it was not a good year for me as that was the first time in my life I felt any vulnerability to life itself. I am glad that you are ok and with your family... that is the most important thing in the world. HUGS Thanks Zelo

I think you are right about not want to remember this day, I hope you good health and happy life. Hugs and a big smile.

I can see that the date would bring back really horrible memories, I think that if I went through that then I would be the same. Funnily enough this time last year I was getting ready to go into hospital to have a hysterectomy. I can see that the date would make you feel so scared but also you have to look at it that you have made it through and you are here to tell the tale. You have been through hell and come out on the other side.

Well, you're right, it's an important date and one that understandably makes you nervous so it's good to talk about it and your fears. This anniversary will probably be the hardest so do whatever you can to take the darkness out of it. Go someplace fun with your family or have people over for a last minute get together to celebrate the year that has gone by and the progress that has been made. Think good thoughts and hang in there. The day will pass.

Just be brave. I know it is easy for me to day. But there is a day in the year I wish I could forget. It will be Jan. 8th. I a not sure how I will handle this day, but I have to face it with optism. That that was last year this is a new year and a new me. You should really just be thankful that your alive. Good Luck. I hope everything goes well.

Hi Shelly, I just finished replying to your other post. I just feel a connection with you because of the hardships, different as they may be that we have in common. Honey, I know it is scary, but try to think of it as a day to celebrate your life. I truly believe that God chooses when He is ready for you. Every moment is precious and I think you have a lot to celebrate. Think of tomorrow as a victory!! An anniversary of Life!! One you fought hard for and won. Be brave and enjoy tomorrow. Leenie

Oh sorry to hear all of that. It's weird because the 21st is my birthday. I will be 28 but it seems like another day to me. I understand you being scared about tomorrow. Sounds like you went through a hell of a mess last year. Hope things get better for you. :)

It all sounds quite horrifying..you are so young, it must have been simply awful for you and your family. But you are here now and you obviously have a happy and positive outlook which is just great. Do they know what the infection was? That's an awful lot of operations...you are surely a very lucky lady. Bless you.

hi shelly43 you did really go through an ordeal and a lot of trouble.I can see where it would have been very frightening and then the pain and the skingrafts and all,and the recovery must have seemed endless but now you are doing great so you need now to concentrate on the positive things that are going on and try to put the past in the past.Opening up to us just might make it a lot easier tomorrow for you.I think its easier to talk to us as comparitive strangers than perhaps to those close to you. I went through some bad times two years ago, not as bad as yours by a long shot, but bad as it ended up with me getting a shoulder joint replacement instead of the smashed bones that had been my left shoulder, cause a bad fall with a smashed left shoulder. months of theraphy still have left me without much use in my left arm but I can cope really well. on Aug 25 of each year I cannot but help remembering the fall , the pain and all the rest but I am still very lucky. Hope tomorrow will work out just fine for you and dont forget you have the love ofyour mylot friends as well as the love of your hubby and family, and look they know what all you have been through so if youdo get alittle teary or antsy tomorow they will forgive you, they wont be upset with you at all. they love you shelly hugs from hatley

good day...It's a hard experience for anyone to go through what you went thru. At least now you're ok and I hope that the trauma that date has brought you would be forgotten in due time. It's doesn't do well to live in fear and I know that deep inside you've gain strength from that situation.With your husband and family behind you. I'll know you'll be ok.

ohhh that is really sad and very understandable why you feel so...you need to be brave if you look at the brighter side whatever happened on 21 july last year you actually fought back bravely and finally got back to your life..so this shows that you are a fighter and very brave indeed....i think it is more of nervousness now ..when you have such a loving and caring husband why worry..have a blast shopping and put all your fears aside...take care..God bless..

Wow! You must be a fighter! You are an amazing woman if you can over come all that!God must have been watching over you! If you get though today that will be one more accomplishment! I can't imagine waking up two months later! You are a strong woman. Have a great day!

i can't imagine how scarey this must have been for you and your entire family ! i hope today was gentle to you. i hope you found time to count the blessings THIS YEAR has bestowed upon you. i hope this year has been wonderful for you. i hope the memory of last year will fade with time and become only a very distant memory for you. Blessings!

hello friend, just pray to GOD. He knows all the best to help us to solve the problem.