I am not able to forget my love even after my breakup. What should i do?

The best thing that you could do is to move on with your life. It is pretty obvious that the girl doesn't love you anymore with the way she treats you. I guess its not really worth spending your love for her as she is just not able to commit to you anymore. Let yourself be healed from the pain you are in that is by letting go of that feeling affection for her still despite the way she acts on you. It is painful indeed but its time to make action to it and be happy for yourself as you were not able to get a girl that does not deserve your love at all.

you have to go to a far away place to do that so there will be no memories of your lover to haunt you wherever you go. i did that once, and it worked. :)

Forgetting a person who has a relationship with you for 1 1/2 years is indeed difficult. Maybe, you should get her out to explain things clearly else it is very hard for you to accept an empty reason for breaking up. Since she has a new boyfriend, well, might as well forget about her by digging yourself into work, studies or get another girlfriend. It is very common nowadays for a couple to break and reconcile.

this is so sad that you had no clue it was coming ! from your words, it does not sound like there was anything wrong, yet she chose someone else. it would have been wonderful, if she had told you why. but, maybe she doesn't know why this happened. maybe she doesn't want to talk with you because she knows she hurt you. the old saying goes, time heals all wounds would apply here. you were together 18 months. that wound is going to be deep and won't heal for a while...especially because you don't know why it happened. i wish peace for your heart.

i found out what went wrong.. in a relationship it's normal to have conflicts and misunderstanding. there is no such thing as a perfect relationship and one way or another someone will get pissed at times. my remedy for you is pick yourself up and learn from that experience and it will help you become a better man.

Start a new relationship and you will get that fellow forgotten.

It is unfortunate that your partner has left you,breaking all the relation you had with her.Since she is now engaged with a new friend and refuses to talk with you,it is evident that she has seeriously been upset and broken down. It seems that chances for reviving your former relationship are remote and bleak.Love is not one sided and can not be enforced on somebody.Since she has already started to build a new relationship,you have no other better choice than treating her as your past history.A person who understand the true meaning of love, live for the sake of love.Pl. do not get disheartened and accept it as a reality of life.

Move on - involve yourself in other activities that will keep your mind off of this person. For example, concentrate on posting discussions of an intellectual nature that trigger people to think about their responses. Stay away from discussions of a personal nature that keep your mind on your problems.

You must be happy for getting a chance to know about her. It is good for you to find another better girlfriend than her. It is meaningless to show our love to those who did not understand our love. It is like trying clap with one hand. I will say for sure, if she did not break it will be good but now it is BETTER than she stayed as your girl friend. Take it very simple my friend. Before closing a door God might have opened nine Doors. My friend you please identify those nine doors. Cheers!!!

Hello Riwazkhadka, i had happen to me sometimes ago and its so hard to forget the one that we really love. It take more courage to forget then to remind about her. Be more patient my friend, busy yourself with out door activities such hang out with your friends. Then Bit by bit your feeling for her will gone without your notice but the memory with her will never be erase. If i can do it, so can you.. Hope you will be cheer again.

That is a shame. You were together for a long time. When you love some one it's not easy after a break up. Feelings just don't go away. I'm sure you will hear a lot of the same advice that you will have to go on with your life. It's not that easy. I have been married for almost 4 years. I have been out of the dating arena for a long time now. I am now 40, but you never forget break ups even from teenage years, especially if it truly was something special. I am not sure how old you are, but still it is never easy. I hope some of my words provided a comfort to you. You will wind up meeting someone else in the future, fall in love, and this girl that you are speaking of will fade a little more each day as far as the memory is concerned. Good luck.

I think many people will meet the problem like yours.Don't think too much about it,go out and find something you like to do.Then I think your pain will be reduced.Looking for a new one you love and let the past go.

forget it ! the people like your partner isn't worth of being treasured ....

dont give up. just keep speaking to her

You're young and believe they'll be more ladies to come your way that can be a better match for you. It may be hard now I know. But again you're still young and it's best just to move on. You never know perhaps you both may even reunite one day. But from the looks of it now just let her be free. If possible stay on good terms but don't hold on to someone if the feeling isn't mutual. You're worth more than that.

Don't be too hard on yourself. Move on. There's lots of women out there. It's normal to keep on remembering an ex-love. With time you'll be thinking about her less, though I don't think we can totally forget our past relationships. Like in my case, even if I have already found a new love my old one still pops up in my mind from time to time.

[b]Forgetting someone you love is very hard. Especially now that she found somebody else. That is very painful. Let your pain heal on it's own. It wont happen overnight, but in time you will learn to forget. How about dating other girls?[/b]

Hello there, I was in your situation but we broke up not becoz of a third party. It was just because we were constantly having fights. But I still love my partner until now. There's absolutely no way to forget your love. The only way is let time heals your pain and then start a new life. Give it time and try your best focusing on other things in your life.

Time is the Best Medicine! I can understand what you are going through. But I would advise you to detach your mind from the same subject and try not to think of the past as much as possible. mylot is a good place to help you do that. The more you think about it, the more you get tied with it. Time is the best medicine and you will be able to look at the situation from a third person's angle after some time passes. If you need to take any decisions, listen to your well wishers, family, friends. take their opinion. Also, you should think of your self esteem and should not be sad for someone who ditched you. In my opinion you should be thankful that this happened in a year and a half only where you could come out of the mess quickly. I have been through the same, which lasted for 4 years. Be strong, be patient, be thankful. you will be all right.

i know its very hard to forget someone you have LOve, But it stime to move on because nothing we cant do about it. Be patient Because it takes year to forget it . There is a sayng TIme will heal the wounf, when that time comes you cannot feel the pain anymore but since it was a part of the chapte of your book th ememory are still there. but nopain anymore. I will advice you to pray evrey night before you sleep pls help me to foregt her, and aslo on the morning and onyour day time activity be busy to your work and other activity , dont siit alone be busy and work hard tp prove something in life till you meet the gift of the LORD. because a good wife is a gift of GOD. thats why dont be sad be happy and wait patiendtly to the woman meant foryou. Good Luck hope it may help you