Thinking of Courting

Well if you are contemplating to go having relationship with a girl then go for it. But you must realized that it will really take your time. Just don't take one for the sake of having one but rather you are getting into one because you want companionship also friendship. You are right about comfort but getting into one does not also provide you a 100% comfort if I might say it bluntly. So try to assess yourself if you can manage your time to your studies as well as having a girlfrind on the side. If you can manage that then go for it and enjoy life as it is.

well engaging into a relationship is really up to you if everything will affect you to pull you down. having a relationship with a girl may also boost up your confidence, self esteem and eagerness to study well to show off and make your girlfriend proud of you with the performances you show her. but if you think you are not as ready as you think you are to enter a relationship then don't force yourself to court someone as of the moment so that you won't regret anything in life. see to it that when you court a lady, you are ready to face the challenges in life. contemplate it more. don't think about you needing to have a girlfriend because when the right time comes, you'll know it if you are ready. first and foremost, you must love the for who she is and that don't make her feel you only entered into a relationship with her just because you felt the need to have a girlfriend. that would hurt her that much.

depends if you really like the girl, think abt it, know your priorities, dont use her to comfort you, love her. men are men, but come on try to be different, dont use other people for you.

Being in a relationship does not mean it's one snap of a finger. Unless your a hunk or something hehehe... I guess in my own experience, it was quite a huge decision for me if I would want to or not be in a relationship. I can still remember myself asking if I was just getting to it,because everyone was into it or perhaps for me to be noticed by others or even to simply experience what it feels to be in a relationship. But I guess the question that really striked me was. Am I ready to be in a relationship because I want to or because it just makes me curious to have one. Then, problems such as what about my personal time, my studies, my time with friends and so on, so forth... Then Finally I had someone corting me... Yes! of course in corting much more in a relationship time is important but it does not necessarily mean 24/7 of full attention is a must. As a girl we need space and so do guys as well. Which makes everything clear if you like her or him and to think about it if you would want to continue. And so once a decision is made, time will be learned to be adjusted in terms of your lovelife, academics, family and friends. It's really not that hard if you dont pressure yourself. So, I guess it's really up to you if you want to or not just be sure that you can handle it...