having bossy partners
By riocab08
@riocab08 (41)
Philippines
July 20, 2008 11:00pm CST
mostly problems in a relationship come in different styles. having bossy partners can piss us off and make the relationship weak. specially if your partner always boss you around. for me i had a partner who is like this and that side of here came out when we were together for about a year. but i had enough and finished the relationship.. did i do the right thing?
2 responses
@greenglitterturtle (2750)
• United States
21 Jul 08
it's your decision. i know that i wouldn't like it. i see couples where the man is bossy or the woman is bossy. i don't think they started out that way. if you see the problem early it could very well get worse later on. if you were miserable then it could get worse. only if there were other advantages that made it worth putting up with the bossy mate, would you want to stay with that person. if you left it is clear you were unhappy. you didn't leave for no reason at all. it could have led to arguments and irritations later on. for you it looks like the right decision. unless you really miss the person. only you know the answer for sure. it gets down to what you want in the relationship.
@riocab08 (41)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
we were really happy at first but as time goes by.. she's has been changing.. the woman i really loved was lost lost and i don't know what happened.. i just felt that it does not work anymore and it's time to let go.. yeah i loved here but theres that fact that i am unsure if shes still loves me.
@greenglitterturtle (2750)
• United States
21 Jul 08
well i'm sorry it has to be that way. and if you're not sure if she loves you, that's no good. i'm female but i've seen men and women miserable in their relationships because the spouse was bossy and some of them if they had to do it over again they would have chose differently. but they stay together to make it work.
no one can decide what is right for you. only you know your situation. hang in there. there's a lot more fish in the sea. and you just might find a better one.
