If you have a quarral with a friend???

we both just kind of acknowledge that things got a little out of hand and then we go on our merry way. both sides usually get overheated in "discussions" and we over react. It is cool once we separate for a while.

I'm apologise first with my friend coz i'm wanna maintain relationship with my friend. That not mean i do the mistake. That my way to solve the problem. No pain no gain.

Well it depends on how far the argument went. Let's say I know I am right but I can let it go, then I would go out of my way and patch things up with my friend. If what happened was really "foul", I think I would let it cool down a bit. I have a tendency to understand my friends when we have arguments but if what happened was something "deep", I take a long time to "cool down"

if the situation really that serious and my friend don't understand what's really happening ill let it go and wait for him to realize it.. and apologize really is not needed if your a real friend, just forget it as if nothing happened, and if yu're really that sorry, prove it by works, more trust, more patience, more temperance..