when is the right time to let go?
By heart4u
@heart4u (409)
Philippines
July 21, 2008 6:08am CST
letting go is really super hard especially if you love the person but guys how or when will you gonna say that it is the right time to let go? how will you know if this is the time or it is not the time? what if you where wrong in the decission to let go? so when and how will you let go? share your thoughts here thank you very much. god bless. keep posting and keep earning. add me also as your friend thank you guys. god speed take care.
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14 responses
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
22 Jul 08
The following rule applied to everything, you will not know until you do it, and that's why it's called decision, we know when it is right or wrong after we decide to do it ... so then you should thinking over and be convinced if you let him go, what you'll get from it, you must accept all of the results
Maybe this one could help you to make decision, you may ask for yourself about what is your feeling when you let him go and see him one day go'in with another girls which girl is one of your friend? at that time he is not your boyfriend anymore ^_^
@bensonshen (102)
• China
22 Jul 08
Once, I deeply feel in love with a girl and I did a lot for her without getting anything. Finally, she became another guy's girlfriend and then I quit because she found her own lover and he will take care of her instead of me.
@qhwater (392)
• China
22 Jul 08
hi, heart4u! if you are deeply in love with each other, then why do you think of letting go? just keep on. if you find some little reasons for depart, i suggest you think more of that. it is not easy to find the right person for you in the world, so try to cherish them. but if you find the future with him will no be good enough, then leave him as soon as possible.
@mayannlucelle (16)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
Hella to ya ! :]
every relationship always go through that kind of situation .. it's a test to tell whether you're meant for each other, or not.
Love is like fighting in the battlefield and you're the soldier of the love that you're fighting for. You're willing to die for love's sake..but you know what? Sometimes, a soldier knows when to fight and when to surrender. The important thing is...you fought for your love after all. When you're co-soldier (your boyfriend/girlfriend) is still there and fighting for it, don't surrender. But
when you can feel that the love you're fighting for is no longer there..then let go. :)
But whatever the outcome of letting go is...be happy and feel what you have in your hands. Move on and fight for the next battle to come. Pray to God so that you'll win next time.
take care always...xoxo :]
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@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
hi heart4u!
well, it really depends. each situation is unique. one person will not be able to determine your situation. but if you can't stand it, then get out. i guess that is the best statement.
in my case, well there were times when my husband and i were tempted to let go when we were still dating, but when persevered, eventually we got married.
we are very happy now. :)
best thing to do is to pray about it.
good day and God bless you! :)
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
21 Jul 08
Hi heart,
I know how hard it is especially of course when we shared all good memories with the person...But, time, feelings and situation will always give us a hint that we are not mean and time to let go!
Let's say, one of you have changed due to a lot of factors, new girl/boy in your life..You noticed that he is no longer the person you used to love and be with, so, it will be unfair in your side to insist of staying even if you feel that his feeling is not for you anymore..
Another situation is that when accidentally, one of you got married and even if you're the real and true love of the person, no matter how painful it is, we have to learn how to let go..
There are instances also that you do care and love with each other but you find a lot of differences that leads to a lot of argument and fighting and lovers will decide to let go for awhile and see how it works by the time they are both ready again!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
When their is no communication anymore.If you fall out of love and cannot accept both of your mistakes. When each of you can't compromised anymore. Maybe when we can't handle the relationship any more and both of us are pulling each other down and the relationship is not healthy anymore. If I was wrong with my decision maybe I'll asked her back again,if she's not yet committed but if she is well I have to accept the fact that she's not really mine. Have anice day!
@Remembering1996 (2219)
• United States
21 Jul 08
If you feel that your relationship is on rocky grounds and it's going no where no matter how hard you try and you just don't see eye to eye any more on anything then it's time to just let go and move on. Go by your instinct feelings if it is telling you that it wasn't ment to last then follow your feeling.I have been through a couple relationships like this and it was extremely hard to make my final decision for I loved him alot but we just never saw eye to eye anymore and I wasn't going to keep feeling the way I was I wanted to be happy. Follow what your heart tells you it's the best way to go.
@1337speak (170)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
heart4u, I believe it's the best time to let go if your relationship is hampering your growth and you believe that both of you can grow as better individuals after a breakup. If it's a tough decision, make sure you're psychologically ready before you make the move. It could be painful for both of you.
@samaki (36)
• United States
21 Jul 08
Finding the right time to let go is not that easy. There are a lot of things that someone might consider before saying that 'goodbye'. Things that you might be asking yourself like: What could be the next thing that will happen? Will it lead me to the greater good? What are the consequences for the decision?
Let go if you think that you are very sure and if you can stand by your decision. Let go if it is the best thing that you know should happen. Remember, what ought to happen will happen. Put your trust in God and He will definitely be guiding you.
@sassygirl2 (19)
• United States
21 Jul 08
there is not right time to let go cause you always wants to hang on to your love ones and friends forever and it just ripes you apart when one of them passes way so there is not really a good time to let go