how do some people get +20 responses?

shav9292, just checking to see if you got 20+ responses to this question, yet. By the way, what response number am I? Hope I am not your first response. Well, I am new here, and I do not know the answer to the question you asked, but just wanted to provide you a response, and say hi, because, I am new and needed to make more friends, one can never have enough friends. Chrystinah

1) They post discussions that make people want to respond to them (read the Guidelines, though, to see what is and is not allowed!) 2) They have a circle of friends who check out their discussions and respond because they know the person and enjoy their discussions

People here in my lot look for discussion that they can relate to. It's hard to response on the post when you have no idea what it means. Try to post an interesting topic and something that everybody can relate to. Good luck.

good yet simple discussions get most responses i guess but there are also nonsense ones but stillfun to discuss.. the most that i have is almost 60 responses and it really feels good.. just keep on doing the best that you can and sooner you will have more responses on your discussion.. happy mylotting

maybe you should get more friends..most mylotters only respond to their friends' discussions..you can start to make friends but make sure you respond to their discussions..if not nobody will respond to yours..lol..my friend told me this..he got at least 10 responses each post..