This is sad!!!!! And despicable!!!!

I am new to Mylot. I have been baptized, and I belong to a church, and I teach Sunday School. I do Bible study at home, I listen to christian music, I pray as an individual and a family. I try to do what is right as a christian, but unfortunatly, I do fumble. It's human nature. I always appologize, and I pray for forgiveness, and I try not to do it again, but I always do. I'm human. I haven't gotten caught up in heated religion discussions on Mylot,and I don't really intend to start. But I've learned that whatever I do discuss, I will tell the truth as the bible has it written. If I'm wrong, then I might learn something. I'm too shy to go around spreading the Good News of the Gospel, but I do read, pray, and attend, as well try to live a christian life. I would like to think that I'm not one of the people that you've mentioned. I am hoping to use the Christian aspect of Mylot as a learning tool, not a boxing ring. Do people really get into nasty discussions?

HI, this is my first time on MYLOT in a long time and what you are saying here doesn't surprise me. I have been saved and a christian for a long time, but not truly devoting my life to christ, until the last 5 years and I have a long way to go. I know we will all mess up and sin, because we are born into a sinful world, we should all just try our best not to and rely on Christ to carry us in our time of need, because it's only through him anything at all is possible. I feel sad that our country has become too much of a melting pot where the one true religion-Christianity has been thrown out the window. I believe if it's in the bible it's the truth, I try not to ever go by this worlds beliefs, such as being politically correct, I personally want to be Biblically correct. And also I have been ridculed many times on other discussion boards for telling what my bible,the one and only true bible says is wrong, IE: Homosexuality, abortion, murder, adultery, etc. Anytime as a Christian we pose our beliefs we are prejudice, ignorant, etc. Well the truth is anyone that doesn't know the bible or about Christ, or doesn't want to make an attempt to even listen or read the bible, I believe that is being ignorant and prejudice towards Christ.

Well in my own personal point of view. I really do not share my beliefs in here as I also seen many post in here about religion and it really is hard to have one good point as everybody has to say about your belief. We really cannot preach in here as we do have other religion besides Christianity in here besides that fact that we Christians are as divided as we are. That is why I avoid topics such as religion in here as it becomes very volatile and becomes out of control.

What we Christians forget is that the Bible doesn't say we should not judge. It says that in whatever way we judge, we will also be judged. So when we ask questions of our fellow believers or of non-believers, when we judge them for things they did or did not do, we're also supposed to judge ourselves in the same way and to allow others to also judge us in that same way. I preached for my pastor on July 13 and spoke of the best ways of getting closer to the Lord - by reading God's word and by praying (which is communication...which includes listening!). Sadly, many people do neither of these. Many Christians have a child's understanding of the Bible - because they have not studied it since children's Sunday school classes. The Bible, to me, is fluid - not because IT changes, but because I do. As I learn and grow, many of the passages that I didn't understand suddenly become more clear. I don't think we should ever stop sharing our faith. But the sharing should be done in the way Jesus would have done. As the Bible tells us, the most important things are loving God and loving our neighbor. If we truly loved God and our neighbor, we'd want to be getting to know them better, to understand them better, and to fellowship with them more and develope better relationships with them. Loving our neighbor means that we will hold our neighbor in high regard, we'll cherish our neighbor, we'll respect and honor our neighbor. If we do those things, then more people will be interested in getting to know the God we love and serve.

Hi edgy, I guess, that the problem is that everyone believes differently, not that it is right or wrong. It is sad, for many do not understand the Word, and they interpret it to their liking. I have been a follower of Christ for a long time, I by no means am perfect or claim to be. I have flaws like everyone else. Yet, I have found on here, that the Other group of believers, have to fight for something, to make them feel good. It is easy to ridicule a Christian, or a do gooder. More than it is to accept them. I feel that fear is a big factor on this, matter. I could be wrong, like I said before, I am still a learner, no matter how long I have followed my Lord. I have found that myLotters, love to argue, and that in itself is sad but interesting, and very closed ears and minds, this too, I have learned in the short time, I have been here. I thank you for the question. I do not feel you are talking about me, arrogance, I pray not, but, I do think that I too am ignorant on many things. But, hey we are all ignorant on something, and this site is a blast, to listen to the people, and find out what this world really is. For the real first time, I believe I understand why God, had the flood and the Israelites roam the desert for 40 years., and still even after that people do not understand. Sad, yes, But, as I also say, I am not of this world, I am in it, to spread the News, and to Love my God with all my heart, soul and mind, and if that bothers others, Than, Praise God for this. For then, I may of done my part, for the world will not love us, Jesus was the example that told us this. So why would this site of people 'not all, but the few' be any different. Take it pure joy, that you can be hated by the world, and loved by your brothers and sisters, and that you are the Example Jesus wanted us to be.

Hey, edgy*S* I have known people who are not church goers and, don't even claim to be Christian but, I find more Christian qualities in them than some who claim to be a true follower of Christ. They love people for who they are, what comes from the inside. To me, this is a Christian. Not someone who tries to tell me I am wrong because I do not believe the same as they do and, I will go to hell for it. I believe in the same God they claim to believe in. My mom used to say something about "Ours is not to judge. Ours is to love" or something like that. I truly believe actions speak louder than words. *L* I make it a point to stay away from discussions on religion and politics. I am not really sure why I was compelled to comment on this one except, that I strongly agree with you. How do I handle the ridicule in my beliefs? I simply smile. I say, " We each have our opinions, we each see things differently. We are entitled to those opinions and to those beliefs. That is what America was founded on, freedom to choose the religion we believe in. Thanks for sharing your opinion with me and, have a good day." Then, I walk away.

I learned a LONG time ago (way before myLot) that there are two discussion topics to avoid - Politics and Religion. These are two things that people take personally and feel very passionate about. There's never a right or wrong answer, but everyone tends to think there is. I have no problem with people interjecting their faith or political affiliation as it relates to a discussion, but when it gets to be preaching or flat out demanding I stop the conversation.

Hi Edgey, I have seen what you speak of time and time again. I honeslty have no idea why those who claim to be religious and following the word act as they do here. See there was a time when I use to avoid these discussions I was young on mylot and wanted to get a footing and feel comfortable with my surroundings before I started answering questions like these. I know around Christmas I put up a discussion about Christmas and Schools and it had nothing what so ever to do with religion yet it turned into a religious debate with me being burned at the stake. I had also been told in that discussion that I have to be one of the most tolerant people religion wise. LOL!! So Yes I have been burned at the stake and I survived. My views are mine and I try not to shove them down anyone's throat. But I will say this Have you ever watched dogma? At one point it's said no one religion has it right I believe that .. It is also said in the movie at one point It doesn't matter in what you have faith in as long as you have faith. I truly believe that no one is right to tell you that your going to hell because of what you have faith in. I have a messed up point of view I guess. Becuase I believe that god comes to people in what they are most receptive to. how are we to know that he doesn't and who are we to say that someoneelse is wrong when we might be wrong. We are here to love and support one another and make this world a better place. Unfortunately people get caught up in this I'm right and your wrong thing and it harms everyone. yes the bible says that you are to spread the word about god but you can only do that to someone who has their heart open otherwise your words fall on deaf ears and the only thing you accomplish is causing a further rift between you and the person your talking to and that person and what they think of your religion. Sorry went off on my own rant thanks for listening and take care.

I know I have been in some heated discussions on here - mainly because I felt the need to "defend" my beliefs when others were busy telling me I would be going to hell. You see I'm not a Christian. But I have no problem with anyone who IS a Christian, or any other religion. My philosophy is believe in whatever makes you feel connected to whatever "higher power" you believe in. But when we get those on here ranting that we are all sinners, and if we don't believe we will all be going to hell, then I feel the need to stand up and say Hey, I don't believe in hell so I won't be there. I guess what it all boils down to is religious tolerance. Its fine to discuss your beliefs, but its not really good to make fun of those who believe differently. I know just recently someone chose to argue with me, and I finally had to say that we would just have to agree to disagree.