what is one sided love???

One sided love - You can think of one sided love after seeing this beautifull picture. The picture illustrates how much pain we feel in our heart when we ended up with one sided love.
India
July 22, 2008 1:55am CST
Loving someone that doesn't love you is like reaching for a star, you know you'll never reach it, but you just got to keep trying. why it feels so right when we all know it is wrong to love someone that doesnt love you. why we cant stop thinking about someone we love. tell me why we feel so much pain as we didnt do anything wrong. We all know that love is god then why it gives so much pain in our heart.
4 responses
• India
10 Mar 09
Suprioda,there is no harm in loving someone. When start loving somebody,you dont ask her permission before loving her. You see a person or may be for sometime you know that person very well. You know her ideas and then come to know about her. Then slowly you start liking her. First you love to talk to her,then you start loving her company and then you star loving her. Love doesn't always mean success. Love means sacrifice,understanding,caring,controlling and many more things. We all have some expectations from love and life. That is why we get hurted when our love story doesn't get a success.
• India
11 Mar 09
thank you dear I think time is the only solution that can heal us.
@debjit (339)
• India
22 Jul 08
Hi friend.... Don't feel bad if you love someone but she does not. there's no rule that you will get love in return whom you love. Love is the most unpredictable and most beautiful thing on earth or beyond it. Nobody knows how, when and why it happens. But when it happens to one's life, it makes his life sweeter. You have named the Love as God. Exactly it is. Has someone finds God without pain? Then how comes Love won't give you pain? Pains and pathos in love makes it more enjoyable, more hard earning. If there were no pain, then how'd you feel the magic of it? Everything is destined. Someday you'll definitely find your true love, it won't be one-sided then. Till then dont loose your faith on Love.
• India
22 Jul 08
thank you my friend but it hurts so much when you loose one of your close good frien just because you love him/her. I think it was my bad luck. but how to forget that incident that is hurting me so much from inside.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
.well, i guess when we love, we should not give all our 100% love. We have to leave something for ourself because in love, its not always happiness. It as always accompanied with sorrow to test how deep is the love that binds two individuals. We do not question then the presence of sorrow and pain when we fall in love. We expect them to be part of experience that will teach us how to love and how to care for the one we love.
• India
22 Jul 08
thank you very much for your response but how to forget someone whoom you love very deeply and that person doesnot loves you. how to eliminate the pain of one sided love.
• India
22 Jul 08
When you love a person and that person does not love you, then it is called one sided love. If you can make the other person understand you, then he/she will love you too...
• India
22 Jul 08
but if that person just hate you then you cant make him understand your feelings for that person. but thank you for your response.