do you have a GF or BF?

It depends what age you are talking about. I don't think it hurts for kids to have girlfriends or boyfriends as long as it doesn't interfere with normal life. If it becomes so exclusive that normal friends are getting ignored, it could be a problem. I do think it better for young people to have lots of different friends so they can learn about life, but you can do that and still have a GF or BF. I remember being in "love" for the first time when I was about 12. It was very real to me, so it's a sensitive issue.