If you are depressed and someone wanted to sleep with you...Would you say yes

India
July 22, 2008 4:12am CST
Many a times when you are depressed your partner still wants to sleep with you.Would you say yes? If no,then why?
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@mandykaren (2040)
22 Jul 08
well i dont have a partner so i answer as though i had it would depend on the depression maybe... but i think id more likely want to feel close to my loved one as it can help to relax and forget, so easier to sleep becuase if i am upset or depressed i would find it difficult to sleep.. It would be very rare for me to say no to a partner for bedroom stuff
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• India
22 Jul 08
Thanks.. for being honest. Most of the people would agree with you.
22 Jul 08
I always am, honesty is easier
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
23 Jul 08
My partner generally knows when i am depressed, and i know he would never ask me for anything when im unhappy- he never has either. He's always cheering me up and making me happy when i have my lows. I dont know what i would say in the situation to be honest. I'd be angry at the fact he would have asked, AND let it happen if i did say yes, but i cant guarentee i'd say no if i felt unhappy and lonely.- Though if i did say yes, i would not be proud of myself either.
• India
23 Jul 08
If your partner knows you.Good.Maybe at times saying yes could help keep away your mind from depression...
@alcazar (761)
• India
24 Jul 08
well... i think that it will be better if we just cuddle up and if it goes on ..then i think it will be the best way out of depression...as u will feel relax in the arms of that person....
@katkat (2378)
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
I’m not in a relationship so I might say yes but it really depends on how depressed I am to be looking for the arms of someone. There times when I’m depressed that all I want to do is sit and read a book the whole day or sleep all day. So it really depends.
• United States
25 Jul 08
I'm not in a relationship, so there are days when I feel alone and used at the same time. Sometimes I wish that I could just be the type of person to sleep around just to feel something. I hate being depressed and I don't know how I got this far in my life. I can only hope that things change, but I don't know anymore.