would you stay if your "other" cheated?
By jhl930
@jhl930 (3601)
United States
July 22, 2008 4:55pm CST
i have heard a lot about this and i read something about this today on the internet and i was wanting other opinions on this...i read today that most women would stay with their husbands if they cheated and give them another chance and the same with men giving women another chance eventually...but i don't know if i had a girlfriend for awhile or either a wife and they cheated if i could stay because i don't really think i could ever fully trust her or forgive her honestly because if she did that it would really get to me as it would anyone...so i was just wondering if you were with someone and they cheated on you, would you be able to stay with them or ever get back together with them? i don't honestly think i could but like i said i want others opinions...thanks for taking the time to read my discussion and i hope you all have a good day!
5 responses
@pixiedustforyou2008 (2422)
• United States
22 Jul 08
i would have to say no i wouldn't stay with even though i love him very much but if my husband cheated on me i would never be able to forgive hm and than i would make his life a living h-e double hookie sticks.. i couldn't live with the fact that my husband had sleep with someone else... I don't know what i would do i would probably do something really bad to myelf if he ever cheated on me becuase i would think it was my fault that he cheated on me.. So i would stay with him if my husband cheated on me..
@pixiedustforyou2008 (2422)
• United States
22 Jul 08
i don't know what i would do if my husband went out.. i probably would go crazy.. my husband never ever goes out.. So thats really good, i don't have to worry about him cheating on me.. But if he did go out i would worry all the time and probably would accuse him of cheating on me all the time..
@kengmun001 (29)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 08
Crazy... Not at all... I dun allow that kind of thing to happen.. I will decide to leave if she cheat.
@HollywoodBarbi (618)
• United States
23 Jul 08
I thought I would never stay with a person who cheated on me. But my current boyfriend confessed to me that earlier in our relationship he slept with another girl. He went to some party without me and got really drunk. He said he did it because we wern't serious back then and that he would never think about doing it again. Though I find it very hard to beleive him. He told me sleeping with her was not worth it and when he woke up the next morning he was looking for me. Im a person who beleives in second chances and I gave him another chance. I can no longer trust him now, but Im slowly getting over it. But if he ever cheated on me again I would leave him.
@queenofarms (1659)
• United States
23 Jul 08
I was in this situtation. I did take my husband back. I believe everyone makes mistakes and deserves a second chance. We were married 22 years when this happened. We even went as far as getting a divorce. We have been back together for a year now and everything is great. I do trust him. We are more open and honest with each other than before.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
Maybe I would. It depends upon the whole situation.
If the cheating is not to severe or can be forgetable.
I might forgive her. But the relationship can never be
the same. I can forgive but I will never forget.
