how was your first relationhsip?

@jhl930 (3601)
United States
July 22, 2008 5:08pm CST
whenever i was in high school i had my first "relationship" and i tried to hide it from everyone because i didn't really want anyone to know(for whatever reason)and it lasted about a few months, and i liked the girl but at the time i liked the girls when it was good for me, but at other times i just wanted to do what i wanted to do...and i think as time has gone on i learned that you can't really do that anymore you have to show her respect...so that relationship wasn't that good at times and honestly it was my fault for the most part...so i was just thinking about this today and was wondering about all of you...i would think that most relationships would start in high school because before then i don't think we really know what relationships are...so please answer...thanks for reading my discussion and hopefully you will have a good day...thanks!
3 responses
reckon21
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
Yes, i agree that most relationship start at high school. Most relationship during that period wont progress later in life. In short couples don't last that long. My relationship in high school is a rocky one. Nobody like her not even my friends. So we ended our relationship in a nice way.
jhl930
@jhl930 (3601)
• United States
22 Jul 08
i have had some relationships where no one i knew really liked her, so i know what you mean on that, i think we all learn things throughout relationships...thanks for replying!
Lois22
@Lois22 (3)
• United States
23 Jul 08
well my first relationship was in high school I had gotten with him to make another boy jealous but it didn't work and I ended up falling for the boy that I had gotten with but he only saw me as a friend but still to this day I think about him all the time.
Rtlsnk316
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
22 Jul 08
My first "real" experience in a formal relationship when I was 17 and she was 20. I was obviously inexperienced and didn't knew how to handle issues in different situations, what I mean is that she already knew her way with men, besides she was really good looking therefore I got intimidated in some way but at the same time I liked it. The rush lasted a few months, but pretty much that was a beautiful experience for me at least since I conquered my fears in some way.