What is the one thing that attracts you to someone else?

Canada
July 22, 2008 5:52pm CST
Have you ever stopped to think what it is that is most common in those that you are attracted to? I had never stopped to think about it till a few years ago when it came to me that a girl with red hair was guaranteed to get my interest. I found that it did not matter what age they were and that they were not perfect body-wise as one would think; all they needed to be was red-haired. I don't know if it was their fiery nature or what, but rarely has a red-head not gained my interest. Do you have a similar attraction characteristic in others?
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• India
24 Jul 08
if it is striking a relationship, then it has to be the genuineness of a person. it is the only thing which is permanent with a person, the character. and if the question is pertaining to making love, then i would say it is boobs and butts. i simply can not resist shapely mountains and wide derriers. they simply turn me on.
• Canada
24 Jul 08
Those two assets definitely do help to the enjoyment in bed. LOL
@heart4u (409)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
his eyes and the way he smiles
• Canada
23 Jul 08
That is what gets me to like all of the other woman I meet. A smile goes a long way to making someone attractive.
@loujac3 (1188)
• United States
22 Jul 08
To me it is a great smile. Happy eyes and a bubbly personality are also at the top of the list.
• Canada
23 Jul 08
I agree that this is important. Think of the opposite and imagine how little you want to think of being with such a person.
@santau (223)
• United States
23 Jul 08
When I first met my husband he had wide, toned shoulders and neck. I realized then that broad shouldered look is what I like. We have been married for almost two years now and I still get turned on when I notice his shoulder or lay my head on them.
• Canada
23 Jul 08
I would hope that as you got to know him, he also had a good personality and knew how to treat a lady. I have seen relationships where it was only physical attraction.
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
Yeah I also noticed that before. And base on my observation, I am easily attracted to men who has this certain way of carrying themselves, good hygiene of course, a man who can engage his self to a meaningful conversation with me and to anyone else makes him even hotter , and a man with great sense of humor. I mean, I am not that physical when it comes to considering a guy, what's important is the impact they create and the way they makes sense when they talk- I love to listen really. Shared interests and intellectual connection is what usually turns me on into an attraction.
• Canada
23 Jul 08
You should be able to have most men of your choice. Listening is a quality that is lacking in most people. Good for you in being a good listener.
• United States
23 Jul 08
I'm not usually attracted to the people I fall for at first with their appearance. I tend to not like them when they are too attractive haha, then I automatically think that they may have big cocky egos . Once I get to speak to someone and find out how their personality works I am then attracted, or not attracted. Though it's not a requirement, I really like guys who are six feet or taller .
• Canada
23 Jul 08
Nothing like a huge ego to turn off most people. Beauty is more than good looks.
22 Jul 08
I'm easy as long as they have an attractive face. Thin or fat, whatever, but the face is what catches my attention.
• Canada
23 Jul 08
I can agree with that though I even narrow it down to the eyes. If they are smiling, then it makes up for other deficiencies.