he courted me - he became my friends bf - he is saying he love me?

Some guys really have this guts!And I say avoid him.

Well guys has many alibi's when it comes to "LOVE". Just an advice, ignore him. If he really likes you, he will do anything just to win you. right? It's not an excuse anyway. Go girl! Thanks for the post petiksmode.Happy myLot...

what a courage i may say. i am a guy and i will never do that. it always wonders me my some people do that. fall in love with bestfriends boyfriend, or court the ex-girlfriend of a friend. we have a big population then why do people cant find the person they like out of all the people around you. i may not explain it to you but i dont think that you need to accomodate guys who are like that. i am a guy and i dont think it is nice to do that. if he likes you from the start like he was claiming atleast he did that courage years ago by finding or knowing where you are not courting your bestfriend instead

When you left to go back to your hometown, the guy was lost and needed someone to turn to. Conveniently your friend was there and the guy directed his attention to your friend. It is like a rebound thing (even though you were not really together and separated). But even though they had a relationship, it probably did not work out because it is you that he truly care and love. If he is once again courting you, I believe your friend can't do anything about it. Ultimately it is your decision whether to let the guy continue wooing you and take the chance that something might happen between the two of you. Just take one step at a time and be careful so you don't make a mistake you would regret

Your guy friend is still persistent about you, I don't know what he was slacking about after you left your hometown. This guy is stuck, maybe he never found someone better than you and for him you're still the one. Meanwhile, he might be trying to forget you while you're not around at the best he could, he might tried moving on to someone else but why..why did he pick someone close to you? Then after hearing that you came back or knowing that you're still have any contacts with your friends, his love came back from long time slumbering. Situation like this would know how to understand his feelings quite a bit. We can't blame how he feels for you, you might just ended up saying to him that you don't like him anymore just for the sake of your girl friend, this will do to make it better. But how about your feelings towards the guy, is it still there? is this situation hard for you?