no ilove you just i miss you (daily)

Philippines
July 22, 2008 6:42pm CST
i have this guy that ic ant call a bf but i cant call a friend neither...we date, wehang out together, he visits me and my apartment, we talk about ourselves, we have some sweet moments together.. he says he misses me everyday, but never did we exchange i love you...hmmm what are we?lols do you have any relationship like this?
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
Well I have to ask you, how do you feel about your relationship. Would you say that you love him? It would be pretty convenient for the guy to have that kind of relationship. No commitment, no obligation whatsoever but you being the girl in this partnership are you okay with that arrangement? If in any case you found out that he is seeing someone intimately how would you feel? Sometimes this kind of arrangement is more convenient to the other party but not both. What is your take on commitment to one another? Will you feel secured or are you comfortable with the way things are.
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
the question of if i love him...yes i do very much i think...for me to agree on this... as for him he told me he is not into seeing anyone except for..well what can i do but to believe it ryt? i really dont know, we are not both ready to commit i think but not even ready to let go....things are bit crazy round us...
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
Well I am not imposing anything from you or him but if I was you in that relationship I would chose security over it. I just feel that being the females in that kind of a relationship is just putting you on a disadvantage. Anytime he may just leave that and you cannot hold him back anymore because there was no formal arrangement between the two of you. But on the other side of the fence, if I were the man I would say I am more or less pretty convenient and comfortable having that arrangement since there is no formal commitment and I can do as I will. I can choose not to be loyal to you and play at the sides since I really do not have serious relationship with the girl. Although I am not forcing you to have that security that most girls are looking for a relationship for me I just want to state the two sides of the coin.
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• Philippines
23 Jul 08
yeah i do understand you,,,and i have mind mind fixed to do that but hell whenver i ask him on what with us,,he always says that "there are things better to feel than to say, he even told me that what if he will tell me everyday that he loves me but he will not put it to action, will it more convinient?...he says that even without a word he makes me feel love..so how can i argue.. or maybe i cant argue coz i love him that much?...crazy me..oops sorry for the trouble...
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@avalanzce (124)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
I also came to that point and almost the same like you have done. It was before back in my College days. Just like you, were both friends, being together like lovers, missing each other but we never had a date for once. I had a feeling that she likes me, she never said a thing at me but the way she does... it was so obvious. I also like the girl, she made me laugh, made me smile and made me comfort for all the time she's with me. We never said that we love each other, saying "I love you", but we're missing each other daily. I guess that she was only confused on what she felt towards me either did I. I just like her for the time being and realized that my love wasn't that strong. Were like a lovers to be but for each other, we're only had only extra special feelings to give. She never expect to love her back and so am I, so we didn't hurt each others feelings. Were just being close, to have this special friendship. I'm not playing with, flirting or whatsoever... I just wanted to be special for her. And so for you..better not to expect a thing from him or If you had a feeling that he does love you, better to let him express his feelings more first than you do. Many people have this kind of relationship, some are just playing, some are so confused or unsure, some just want to hurt someone, some just want to stick the friendship they have, some misunderstood, one-sided love..etc.. So which of this are you both having right now... Time for you to know. I wish that both of you would be true lovers.
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• Philippines
23 Jul 08
i wish that too everyday... the only diff on your exp and mine is we go out on date, so it is clear that we are not just friends but not lovers as well...we both knew that...hayss...yeah i love the guy and hope one day we both have courage to say how we feel about each other..