Relationship with mother-in-law?

Yes. It is true. Mostly the difference is visible between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law. Both of them are pointing others for this. But they are not willing to accept others. It is really a big head ache for the husband and son (played by the same person. lol). Any ideas to resolve this awkward situation, will be highly appreciated.

Its in your hand. how your are consider them. If you will treat them as your husband's parents then you are making this relationship worst. take them as your own parents. call them as mom and dad as your husband calling. If you start a good relationship with them then they will also start treating you as thier daughter. remember for them also it is hard to share thier son with you and accept you as a family member.

My mother-in-law has been passed away for a good many years now but when she was alive we got along pretty good. Now on the point of couples of living with their mother-in-law how good they would get along depends on different things. If the two get along well than it probably would work. But as anything I think rules of the house should be discussed before any moving in was done. There need to be some boundries set. This is all to me common sense. So I think it could work living with parents-in-law.

I've been married for 10 years now. And in that 10 years, my parents-in-law lived with us for 3 years. Based on my experience. I didn't have a hard time dealing with them. I've known them for 7 years before my husband and I decided to get married. They treated me as family. Though there were times that we argue on our differences, and with financial issues, we still get along well. Keep posting! HUGZ!