Move out or live with parents??

I have been married for almost 4 years. At the start of our marriage, we moved in with my husband's parents. From what I noticed, though they treated me nicely, we were just confined in our room. I could not decorate or move things outside because it isn't mine. 2 years later we were able to move in our own house within the same compound, 15 feet away. Though it was already our house, my mother in law kept meddling on how I run the household. She also meddled with how I decorated the house, etc. So we left. Now we live with my parents. Though these are MY set of parents, it is much more different than when I was single. We are confined in my old room. Just like what we felt when we were in my husband's place, we cannot make any movement. At the end of the day, we just stay in the room. We are looking for a place of our own now but moving out is not as easy. Money is a big factor so in the meantime, we just have to put up with everything.