Have you scolded your father at the back??????????

parents are the easiest people to attack and no parent is perfect. I know there are parents out there who really don't care what happens to their children and even some who have the idea that being their child's best friend is a good thing. Both situations are very dangerous and can cause irreversable damage. Generally, parents simply do the best they can with the tools and knowledge that they have. I personally, have had some major relationship problems and, through couseling, found out I was doing things my dad did! I am not going to attack my father, his system worked for him. For me, I will recognize this and create a new pattern/habit that works just for me.