If you feel your friend is just tolerating you..

If I feel like I am being just tolerated, then I spend a couple of days away form them, and I wait for them to call me. This way, I can be sure that I have given them their space, and also, if they call me I know that they enjoy my company and that I'm wanted around :) Also, sometimes if I am in a bad mood, I will say that I feel like i'm being tolerated, and that I am in a bad mood and probably not pleasant to be around, and most of the time, my friends don't even notice and think that I wasn't being weird or unpleasant at all! Communication is the key to a good relationship :)

If I feel I'm just being tolerated I leave. Being tolerated is just another way of saying, go, but I'm not going to tell you to do that, do it by yourself. Its an uncomfortable and resentfull feeling to have and it leads you to dislike people intensely. So I just leave.