love
By speeddevilx
@speeddevilx (76)
United States
July 23, 2008 4:34pm CST
well theres this girl i met in middle school and i know i love her i want to marry her. thoe i never even went out with her just been a good friends with suggestions and stuff like that. she text me every night when her bf is asleep we talk about life and how it is with each other. her boyfriend doesnot deserver her he treats her badly. the way she tells me doesnt seem like she wants him. just i guess she doesnt have any place to live. for like 6 months she was working all the time nearly failed to graduate high school but i got her to bring her grades up and we both graduated the same day. but for 6 month she worked and that lazy boyfriend of hers didnt work. he sat around and watched tv and other stuff. she had two jobs.
one at a restaraunt and another at a strip club. i mean if her boyfriend really loved her wouldnt he not let her work at a strip club? well she wasnt stripping thank god! but she was a weigter there. but perverts talk ways of women sometimes. you know. she went to school at 8:15 got out of it at 12:00 then went to work from 2:00 to 12 at night and during the week end nights to the strip club.
she told me she would marry me if she wasnt with him but i dont know whats keeping it from happening.
what you think i should do to try to win her to give her a better life?
3 responses
@myahw20 (1115)
• Canada
23 Jul 08
First of all I hope she dumps her jerky boyfriend before anything else. She should not be keeping him if he treats her that way. If she really loves you and you really love her then just talk to her more clearly about this issue. Let her know what you think. Give her courage to leave her boyfriend. Give her assurance that you will be there for her. Before any of her other issues can be resolved she should start with breaking up with her lazy boyfriend. After that it's easier to sort the other problems out. I hope it would work out between the two of you. Good luck!
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
24 Jul 08
Well nobody owns her or her life, not her boyfriend and not you. If she wants to leave she will leave when she is ready. There's nothing you can do to "win her". Just keep being there for her as a friend but don't put pressure on her.
@Icyfairy (284)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
23 Jul 08
i guess if you feel this way about her you should definately try to win her but ultimately it's gonna be her decision if she want to leave this guy that she is with. the most you can do is try to let her know how you feel and shw her that you are the best person for her. good luck
