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@kriazenterprises (139)
Pakistan
July 24, 2008 12:55am CST
O.k I did it.. I kissed a girl that i really liked and received a very handsome sL@#P on my face in public. Ouch! there was a lot of embarrasments and many many laughs, chuckle giggle e.t.c around and you can imagine my situation.. o.k now what. should i leave her and every other girls in this world and never kiss any one ever again Or should i find some one else and try try again until i really find a girl that would allow to kiss her and kiss me back Or should i go to the first one again and again and again and kiss her until she kisses me back
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@angelia286 (2029)
• Singapore
24 Jul 08
Tough luck, I must say.
There isn't much information in what you had mentioned. Firstly, you mentioned that this girl is someone whom you really like, but.. does she like you?
2nd Are both of you an item, or just a friend?
If it is just a one-sided affair (with you liking her, but she does not like you), it is no wonder that she would slapped you. If it is me who got kissed by someone who is not my boyfriend in the public, I would also do the same and come worst to worst sever off my friendship with that guy.
If she is your girlfriend and she slapped you in public, then I would have to say leave that girl. It's not worth having a girlfriend who have no qualms about humilating you in public.
If she is just a friend, no matter if it's in public or in private, it is still not right. It feels like an invasion of her personal space if that was to happen, especially somewhere out in the public, where everyone could see what is happening.
To answer your questions, no you should not stop having to kiss anyone else again due to one single incident. However, I feel that you should have more respect for the girl, and perhapes ask for her permission and give a chaste kiss if it is the first time you are kissing the girl.
Even if you were to go around kissing that girl again and again, I would guarantee that #1 you either get slapped again, or #2 you would lose her friendship and instead of having the romance that you wanted, you will end up losing the one that is important to you.
Remember, the key is Respect, Ask and you shall be given. Hope that this helps! =)
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
24 Jul 08
I certainly wouldn't give up on all girls! You might want to go back to the one you kissed and apologize to her though. If she slapped you it could mean she didn't like you kissing her or it could mean she didn't expect you to kiss her and she was so shocked she slapped you. Talk it out, and go from there. Apologizing will show her that you are a caring guy and she will appreciate that even if she doesn't want another kiss 
