Why do i always lose my BEST FRIENDS?
By Ryan Rosario
@ryandreamz (159)
India
July 24, 2008 5:36am CST
I must say that I'm very unfortunate when it comes to having a Best Friend? Coz at every stage I keep losing them. I had a Best Friend when I was in 4th standard. We were the best friends for 2 yrs. Then suddenly he left school and joined somewhere else. Though I used to meet him on and off, but it was not the same. In the mean time i got another Best friend in my 6th standard. But that too didn't last long. After a year me too moved to a different school very far. So we were not in touch at all. I thought its better i don't have a Best Friend coz i may lose them again. So now if someone asks me who my Best Friend is, i simply say i don't have Best Friends, but i have a couple of close friends who i cherish the most..... All the best everyone...CHEERS!!!!!!!!
7 responses
@dextornap (333)
• India
24 Jul 08
Take thier number or address and keep communication. Keep in touch with them. so that you can be still friend. Be friendly and help them whenever your friends what you.
@ryandreamz (159)
• India
24 Jul 08
Well my friend I'm in touch with them but i can't call them my best friends anymore. We don't share that togetherness that we shared earlier...thanks for replying...take care buddy
@karthiganesh (103)
• Singapore
24 Jul 08
The intimacy of best friends is not subjected to their locality. You need to meet him/her daily but still you can be a best friend.
I hope you understand, what I want to mean. Yeah hereafter you never lose a best friend. Friendship is a feeling. It dont need any medium to pass thru. It cannot be broken by distance.
@ryandreamz (159)
• India
24 Jul 08
Well i meet them often, but it is not the same. Though we are in touch I can't call them my best friends. I don't share that closeness with them anymore. thanks for replying buddy...take care
@creative_genius (992)
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25 Jul 08
It happens to most people at one point, and I wouldn't worry as the reasons that you rew apart aren't bad ones. There would only be cause for concern if you kept on falling out with your best friends. It is better to have a set of friends than one best friend anyway!
@relundad (2310)
• United States
24 Jul 08
Best friend is a term of endearment for me. Its about a bond that is created by two people that goes beyond your location, or how often you see the person. Its a bond for me similar to the ones you have with your blood relatives.
I have had the same best friend for over 30 years. We only see each other a couple of times a year and only talk a few times a year. But in my heart she is still my best friend. The friendship remains in your heart.
@Marsgirl74 (28)
• United States
25 Jul 08
YOu will always have friends that come and go, that's just how things go in life. But if your lucky you'll find ones that will always be around...Just give it time and you'll get one.
@ganeshmmm (4)
• India
25 Jul 08
Hello,
Dont lose your hope.why u r not in touch with ur 4th std friend..?If u r very close and if he is also very close then each one has to continue their wish on the Festival days as wellas on urs Birthday.Thats wat ur Friendship will last for long.Basically u will thk that that person has to contact u first..and u thk that person shousd contact first..then both of them thought that both are busy...Like that friendship and best friends are getting loss....
Ganesh
@vikram3101989 (684)
• India
24 Jul 08
you share the same story as i do my friends have always been the one's expecting more out of me like taking them to hotels and dinner and taking them to theater and watching films with them things that i don't like doing much so keep losing friends
