Who would you help more?

To be honest, I would not have sympathy for either party. To leave a woman because she can't have kids is awful. There are so many other ways to have children, IVF, adoption, fostering, etc. I would think very little of a man who left a woman because she couldn't bear his children. As for a man who couldn't stick to one woman, well, why did the idiot get married in the first place? Marriage is not something one should enter into lightly, it's supposed to be for life and not being able to keep it in your pants, well that's disgusting and he should not marry in the first place if he couldn't control his lust for other women! How about this for 2 other but quite similar scenarios? A woman leaves her man because he can't father children or a woman leaves her man because she can't stick to one man as she finds him boring in bed :)