do you forgive easily?

@heart4u (409)
Philippines
July 24, 2008 8:37am CST
do you guys forgive easily? when somebody beg for an apology did you accept it right away? me i do forgive but i cannot forget hmmm..but i also forgive but its hard for me to forget the things i know its no good but i just dont know why so are you guys forgive easily and forget at the same time? what can you say av=bout it? opinion guys give some keep posting and keep earning enjoy your stay here in mylot thank you very much guys comment please thank you.
6 responses
• United States
24 Jul 08
I can forgive but I know I can't forget it takes a long time befor the whole situation just fades into thin air and becomes like nothing eer happen. Our minds are like fileing cabinets we take in everything and file it away and can remeber all that has been done to us by someone in particular. The little things that people do I can forgive and forget but the big ones no those take some time it really depends on the situation really.
24 Jul 08
Yeah i do tend to forgive but dont seem to forget easily... the incidence will leave a permemant mark which will keep me thinking if the rest is true or when the person will do such a thing again! I takes me ages to regain the trust i had in the person depending on the situation.. sometimes things are never the same!
@cdb1987 (27)
• United States
24 Jul 08
sometimes it isnt easy to forgive, BUT you know it should be done regardless...i had a bad experience with a women once and she begged for foriveness....I can't stand when a women begs because i think she has no reason to beg.....if she just simply ask forgiveness, i will forgive her, but it doesn't neccessarily mean i will forget. Usually, i get past it in some time and move on...Forgiving isn' too hard for me though
@luvstochat (6907)
• United States
24 Jul 08
I don't think anyone every really fogets but most people can forgive. It just depends on what the situation was how easily I ca forgive but like you I will never forget I think that is something that just can't be done.
• United States
24 Jul 08
This is one trait I wish I could change. I am not a forgiving person. Once I've had a falling out with someone, I never see or speak to them again. I admire people who can forgive, because I think it's an important thing to do. I just can't do it. People often ask about my mother, whome I haven't seen in more years than you've been alive. When I tell them I don't know, they're usually either shocked or they tell me to forgive her; you only have one mother. I tried that once, many years ago, but it was a disaster. I just couldn't stand to be in touch with somebody who hurt me so deeply.
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
Same here kababayan. I do forgive easily, but i really can't forget what they've done to me.
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
depends on the situation and the person who beg for apology hihi