Staying in a relationship for the children's sake.
By Daphers
@Daphers (141)
Canada
July 24, 2008 2:58pm CST
I really don't agree with anyone staying in a relationship for their childrens sake.
If I child grows up seeing that mom and dad don't like each other as much as they should or they are arguring a lot, that is going to be worse for them in the long run. It will give them personal and social dilemas in their life. If there are two loving parents that are divorced and they are better people when they are not together, I think that would set a better example for the children. We each only have one (short) life so why waste it being unhappy for what we think is the sake of the children?
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@dextornap (333)
• India
25 Jul 08
In my country women are so dependable on their husband. They rarely come out from home to work. In this case when they are not financially strong how can they come out? How to secure children life? I know after diverse government give order to father of the child to give monthly some amount to child. But that amount is too small to take care of a growing child. So however be the husband wife stay with him only to secure her children s future.
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@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
yes i agree with you ., it is better off than to fight on something everyday.,.that scene will be on childs mind till he/she grows up.,and i want that to be happened to my children if ever.,everybody wants to have a complete and happy family, who doesn't want it.,but if my husband and i were fighting everyday then i guess we need to decide whether to continue it or not.,
